我唔知點做..我奶奶好黑人憎

2012-07-28 8:49 pm
我同我老公結左婚16年啦 呀仔14歲
岩岩結婚戈時同我奶奶一齊住3個月到 因為我叔仔個老婆要生BB所以我奶奶就過左去佢到住~幫佢照顧BB 因為我叔仔個老婆要返工(有請工人)不過星期6同日 我奶奶就一定返我到住 因為佢兩公婆放假..我叔仔個仔幾個月到我就有左...之後生BB我奶奶都有返黎幫我...不過都係一個月.我一滿月佢就返去我叔仔個到啦...OK..我都冇問題..我自己照顧BB因為我唔洗返工....到我個仔幾個月大戈時..問題就出現啦....我奶奶唔係正係星期6日返黎我到住...佢病左都一定返黎我到住...大佬呀 佢有BB 我都有BB啫 點解病左就要返黎我到住..要我照顧埋佢..一病好左就拿拿林返去幫佢照顧個仔.....你當我係咩..當我仔係咩...我忍..我見佢係老人家..佢係我叔仔個到住都唔係好好受...試過幾次同我叔仔個老婆鬧交喊住返黎我到...我都忍...直到我個仔6歲到惡夢就開始啦...我姑仔.帶住我奶奶返黎我屋企住..(長住)因為我姑仔睇唔過眼我叔仔老婆咁對佢呀媽..OK..我都接受見佢老人家都70幾歲囉..冇所謂啦..自問我對我奶奶好好..佢同我一齊住..我咩都唔晒佢做..全部我搞掂晒...佢日日正係出去打牌 返黎等食飯..訓覺....佢病左我同佢睇醫生...樣樣野都好就佢...我覺得我已經做好我本分....佢返黎住幾個月到..我就覺得佢好煩...我出街成日打電話吹我反屋企..我去邊佢都要官..我都忍...之後呢幾年仲煩...呢樣又唔中意食戈樣又唔中意食..我咪問佢中意食咩囉 煮比佢食...我最唔開心既都唔係呢到..最唔開心既..點解到今時今日佢都仲係唔化...樣樣野都話我叔仔好.佢老婆好.因為我奶奶返黎我到住之後佢地星期6都過黎同佢飲茶...一餐茶可以代表咩...你就唔記得佢地之前點對你咩...既然覺得佢地好 點解唔返去佢到住..點解仲要係我到住...要我睇你面色做人 要我受你氣...有時我真係火到想斬死佢....我姑奶同我姑仔.我老公 戈D都知我奶奶咁樣...佢地都話過佢..佢都係唔識醒...到而架..我姑奶姑仔戈D都冇同我叔仔戈邊來住..同佢地冇計傾..我奶奶都知...到返轉頭,我奶奶話我D姑奶姑仔唔岩..唔彩佢個細仔...點解搞到今時今日你都仲係唔明 仲要幫住佢地.....
我覺得好為屈..好唔開心...

回答 (2)

2012-07-31 9:17 am
✔ 最佳答案
第一.你可以同你老公反映OR同你老公一齊同奶奶傾下.因為如果只有你同你奶奶傾既.你地關係吾好一定傾吾到.你可以同你老公一齊同佢傾下OR叫你老公同佢傾下
第二.老人家就系咁.淨系會記得依家D事.見面少既自然衝突亦少啲.見面多既自然多啲.感情亦會因為衝突而吾好,你可以試下關心多啲佢.如果你想出街果陣佢少D吹你反屋企既你可以出左街之後主動打番去搵佢問下佢想食D咩.洗吾洗買D野比佢咁.
第三.其實一餐茶代表住既系佢地對你奶奶仲會掛心會理奶奶.有D人什至完全吾理丫媽過成點咁樣,咁如果你肯既可以一齊去飲依餐茶.可以增進兩家既感情.亦可以調適下你同奶奶之間既感情
第四.奶奶倒轉頭話你姑奶姑仔吾岩系好正常.因為佢果輩既人重男輕女.加上系全屋最細果個.當然最錫佢嫁喇.咁自然系會幫住佢地.再吾系既亦可以叫埋你姑奶姑仔一齊去飲茶.兩家亦會多左來往.咁就吾洗奶奶話邊個邊個吾岩.而且佢都系希望見到你地有多D來往.吾好咁無人情味.老人家系會怕,因為佢已經老,怕失去,見到你地咁樣亦會開心啲
參考: 我只系一個青少年.如果你認為你既經歷比我多.所以我講既野無乜可信性.咁你可以吾洗理依個回覆.但系如果你覺得OK既.請你比個笑臉我.等我都知你接受左.我幫左你:)
2012-08-02 8:14 am
Sorry to hear that, nothing you can change, my mom has the same problem, she never like, appreciate or love my wife, not until the latest year before she is very sick, and the time she is about to leave this world (dying), she knows and reconcile what did my wife has done for her and felt sorry for herself. My mom is stubborn, nothing you can change and nothing you can do. One good thing, she is 70 plus, be patient, she will knows someday, perhaps, just like my mom,only appreciate what you have done for her in the last minutes, alas, good luck.

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