點解識左12年ge朋友當我係草?

話說..我有一個識左12年ge'朋友-呀a'..仲要係同年同月同日生ge'朋友'..
其實本身關係都好好ge..但係呢..近呢1,2年呢個'朋友'就成日有意無意咁串你..踩你咁..

1)呀a講:明明同你一樣同年同月同日生..都唔知點解你個性格咁難頂..
聽到呢句說話..你地會點比反應??..而我當時只係啞左..心諗..咁唔通你d性格又好好咩....T^T

2)朋友之間總會有d時候講下d異想行空ge野嫁喇..但係呀a就會話:'小朋友'你會唔會諗多左呀?
我又啞左..嘜野叫吹水..嘜野叫做'小朋友'..又唔係大過我好多..我都有尊嚴嫁囉.......!!

3)生日同佢2丁友去左中環d高級西餐廳食飯..咁都已經我搵我book位..但係佢可以話我化妝趕唔切黎..叫我打去推遲個時間..咁我都聽佢講..但我已經係果到足足等左..半個鐘..到真係入到去..自問英文底不嬲都差勁..但基本指手劃腳厚面皮表達我都ok!..呀a就叫我點餐..應該係唔想佢自己出醜呱..咁我事前我已經同佢講..我會飲酒..咁我叫埋喇..佢就即刻同我講..你唔好飲醉..我唔會送你返去!..唉..我又唔係叫1枝..我叫1杯..仲要係香檳..其實點解佢會咁話我..係因為佢岩岩隻腳受傷..唔可以飲酒..平時叫出去飲酒果個係佢囉-0-!咁食食下飯..隔離台d人投訴對面d食客好嘈..個侍應走到埋黎了解又問呀a(用英文對答)..其實我成個過程都唔知個侍應有問過佢野..呀a就同我講呢件事..我話'下..係咩?我唔知ge'..呀a:'哈哈~我知你唔知呀!~'..我心諗..咩事呀?=-=..冇理由大家打對面坐..我真係會唔知-0-!!真係鬼掩眼??到埋單..好笑..!我仲有一大杯凍檸茶叫左未飲..我叫呀a咁買單先喇..還店要等..呀a就問我埋單英文係咩..我話我唔識..跟住佢就唔理我..佢係到check fb囉-0-!!..到我真係飲哂杯野..佢又叫返我埋單-0-!!可笑係..佢做野公司係成日對住d外國客..成日都同我講佢要覆英文e-mail..

4)2個女仔傾心事..佢從來都唔會主動同我講佢自己d野果wo..只有我同佢講我唔開心我經過左d咩事..但係佢比ge反應係..'我知呀~我知你會咁~我知你係咁嫁喇~淨係識得逃避~唔該你諗遠d喇~'我叫你比意見唔係叫你[繫]落我..比我感覺係..呀a係唔可以衰係我面前ge..佢自己係岩果個..係最識諗果個..佢成日都同我講..'你經歷過d野我都經歷過哂喇'..唉..我依家又唔係同你鬥快鬥win..佢話'我差人地十幾萬又試過..落仔又試過..一夜情又試過..屋企問題咩都試過..你d問題唔係問題..'好聽講句..你係經歷多過我有經驗..難聽講句..你呢d咪又係叫唔識諗唔經大腦..我唔覺得呢d事係一件好好值得炫耀ge事囉..

5)平時佢成日都同我講'你都知我嫁喇~我唔可以同人地撞3撞鞋撞電話嫁ma..依家呀邊個邊個又要同我買埋同一部電話呀..我真係好唔鍾意囉!..' '你做嘜成日睇韓劇姐..都唔知有嘜好睇..小心睇壞腦呀你'..'你又係公司冇野做呀..你返工做嘜嫁?..咁不如你唔好返~' 啞哂..完完全全啞哂..!!!!

呢d說話..呢d事件..都令到我覺得..我究竟係咪識錯朋友?..定係我唔夠真心咁去對你..自問我係一個唔會去博咀兼係典型宅女ge人..因為我永遠覺得多一事不如少一事..多個朋友好過多個敵人..更何況..我身邊朋友已經唔係好多..我當你係我知己..我ge事你咩都清楚..但係呀a佢究竟當我係嘜?..呢d問題纏繞左我好耐好耐..我有諗過同呀a疏遠..因為我唔想我成日因為呢d問題而搞到我自己唔開心..但係呀a又會間唔時比d甜頭..'喂..好耐冇見喇..我好掛住你'之類ge說話..令你唔出去唔得推唔到果隻..推左..呀a又會發脾氣..唉..

我忍左太耐喇..所以好長篇好多怨氣..但係我真係諗唔通呢個人..你地可唔可以幫到我?我仲應該點對待佢??希望你地可以幫到我喇!!我對人際關係處理投哂降喇!!!!!HELP!!