We really are in love, and we really want to stay together at least until college and definitely through High School.
Unfortunately, I left my Facebook open one day and they ended up finding some VERY inappropriate talk between us on our messages regarding something I'd done to him (the farthest we have gone is me going down on him) and now I'm not allowed to see him AT ALL.
We talk on the phone every day, but I need to SEE him; we had a class together during school so I was able to see him every day, but now I can't see him whatsoever.
I don't know how to convince my parents to at least let him come over to my house, which he used to be able to do.
We used to be able to date before the incident, which happened about a month ago.
He came over once after my parents found out, and they had a talk with him, so I thought things would be fine, but we broke our curfew (which is at 10pm) by 30 mins and now I don't know if I'll be able to see him until next school year!
What should I do? And are my parents right about keeping me away from him? I'm very confused :/
Sorry the question is so long :p
This is exactly why I'm confused, everywhere I go, people are telling me two things; that it's normal, and you shouldn't strangle away your basic urges. And that everyone does it, and it's normal and good for your relationship. And then other people tell me that I'm dead wrong and that I've betrayed my parents. I personally don't feel bad about what I did with my boyfriend, we did this to refrain from actual sex, which I've told him I'm not ready for, and he accepts. My parents hardly let me leave the house since this happened, and printed the FB messages with the intent to show HIS parents. I was luckily able to find the papers and threw them away. Because in my opinion they were invading my privacy and using the papers as an excuse to ruin his parents impression of me.
I've tried talking to them about it, and they just say they can't trust me and I won't see him as long as I live under their roof. I wish it were as simple as having a 'talk' with them. THEY won't listen to ME.