HOW to get my RESPECT BACK???!!?

It's funny - my husband has been complaining that I am doing the same thing to him. I really don't mean to - I love him to death. I think sometimes we as women get frustrated, and the more "dominant" you are as the man, the more frustrated we get because we don't know how to make ourselves heard.

Maybe it's a gender thing - yes, you're the boss and the bread winner. But maybe your lady doesn't feel like SHE'S getting any respect for what she brings to the relationship. She doesn't know how to talk to you about it, so she lashes out.

Of course, I'm only guessing based on my own situation. I might be wrong, but at least think about it. Also, talk to her - CALMLY. Don't be confrontational. Just tell her you don't like the way she's been talking to you.

You need to tell her to take a hike. No one should disrespect their significant other. Male or female.

Sounds to me as if you still have time not to make a bad situation worse by having her move in with you. Once that happens, it will be harder for you to get her out if she persists with her rudeness. If you still want her to move in, then this is the time you set the rules and tell her what will happen if she does not follow them.

You might be everything you say you are but you are obviously not assertive enough. It sounds like you let her walk all over you. Next time she yells at you just get up and leave without warning and saying nothing. Short sharp shock treatment is what's needed. Don't let her wipe her feet on you.

Nip this thing in bud before it gets further. You need to set the rules and demand before moving in together. So before the first see her in person and calmly sit down and talk to her. She might loss her cool and start arguing so keep your cool and be patient. Of its like this now I think its a sign may be you need to step and reevaluate everything about this relationship. If she can't agree with you and the fact that you are willing to compromise then do not allow her to move in with you. Could she be prengnant?

Just explain to her that respect is important to you and show her the same respect. A woman wants love just like a man wants respect. Dont walk around demanding respect, i dont care what you have. If you cant give respect you aint gettin it.

Whatever you do, do NOT let her move in!! You will no longer be in your own home.
Get rid of this hag!!!!! Misery, misery is awaiting you.

People will only treat you the way you let them.

You are also a feminine hygiene product.

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