Should I just give him up?? Gosh, I'm so confused!?

It could be a lot of things. He could be a typical guy who does not keep up on communication :P He could be showing off, or just being playful. Or he could really like you and around other people he is relaxed about flirting, but alone he is more shy.

The only way to find out for sure if he likes you in that way or not is to ask him. It's awful I know but trust me... you don't want to spend the next 2 years wondering only to be let down. Been there, done that. Just ask and get it over with.

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i agree with Sandy and the other person. about facebook, yes i too been through a lot of malfunctioning. and yes ask him instead guessing. about chocolate maybe he wanted to know or recall what was your reaction. maybe he short of memory lol. well whatever you do dont be so quick in dumping him. you been together for nearly 3 4 years. thats a good long time. well whatever you do but dont be hasty what if you find out you were too quick to take a wrong decision.

I'm in this situation myself (see source). If you still have feelings for him, don't make yourself change them feelings. Try and reduce the amount of times you contact him (unless it's in person) via facebook or text because he could get the wrong idea and get fed up with you talking to him all the time. I texted my crush a lot for a couple of days and by the third day he started ignoring me and eventually texted me back using 1-2 words. I hope things work out for the both of us xx

slap him in the friendzone

He is a show off and trying to boost his self image in eyes of his friends by boasting that he took you out on a date. You can never be sure of such kind of what other things, which didn't happen between you two, he might be spreading. It is best to keep a distance from such persons as they can not be trusted as friends at any stage in life.

it sounds like he is all lovey when friends are around because its a show off thing it to me sounds like he just wants t be friends just act as friends

To be honest, he sounds deceitful and devious to me and not altogether honest either. He`s ok for a friend now and again I would say, but not someone I would want to spend the rest of my life with.

The chocolate episode might tell you something (he`s mean) and it could have been some that someone have given him last december, so he just passed it on to you.

Never gonna give you up
Never going to let you down

Umm I would drop it. If he's causing you this much stress and he's not even your boyfriend, imagine the stress he'll cause you if he becomes your boyfriend. It sounds like he is trying to use you to show off to friends. Is there another girl in your group? He might be trying to make her jealous.