What to do when a "friend" is ignoring you?

2012-02-07 3:58 am
One day out of the blue this girl -lets call her A-that I'm close to (hang out a lot) started ignoring me. It drove me crazy, but a mutual friend who is my bestie talked to her, and she said i was making her feel left out because me my bestie (who is a good friend of A) and another girl i am close to always hang out together.
I always try to make her part of our group, but sometimes she'll just walk away from us and start insulting ME, even though the other girls barely put up with her drama. I always go after, when the other girls don't care anymore, but then she ditches me and goes running back to them. My friends are getting sick of A, but they put up with her until she started to actually become a good friend.
Now she's ignoring me again and yells at me and calls me names, but i don't know why. She said i only act like people's friends and actually hate them.
She used to be someone i could talk to but I'm not so sure now. I want things to go back to the way it was, but now she's trying to kick me out of the group, but my best friends have started to like her, so we don't do anything about it.
I wrote her a note saying i always thought of us like sisters and that if i did anything wrong to call me out on it and that we should talk, but she won't say anything to me. Our counselor/disciplinarian always said to talk to him, but i don't want to be too mean to her and go to him because she might be suspended cuz i go to a muslim school and we always have to be nice o each other and be friends otherwise its like a 3rd degree infraction.

I don't know what to do. I just want to be friends again. Am I being too mean or is there something i can do ? If you need more info just say so and I'll talk more.

PS I'm wondering if she feels insecure or something because not to brag but I'm a straight A, honor roll, science fair winner, frequent volunteer, lead of the school play, and I am friends with everyone in our class, so i don't know if she could be jealous of me or something, even though i don't really get why i get these things
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PS she doesn't badmouth me, or call me names in front of me, but in front of every other girl and sometimes i hear her. She basically doeskin talk to moi anymore...

回答 (14)

2012-02-07 4:35 am
✔ 最佳答案
trust me on this because it always works, just ignore them when they come to you. it drives people crazy (see how you're reacting? you just wrote a huge question on yahoo answers about it). they'll ask you to hang out just say you're busy a couple of times and they'll worship the ground you walk on... NlGGERS!
2012-02-07 12:28 pm
Flip that middle finger up and let the index finger follow and say DUECES!
2012-02-07 12:29 pm
Challenge the friend to a duel.
2012-02-07 12:58 pm
i think shes jealous of you
dont go to your counselor because she might really get kicked out of the school, blame you and badmouth you every chance she gets or sees you. i think you should either directly ask her why shes ignoring you or i she really wont talk to you, then use your best friends and other friends you can trust and use then as a communication thing.
don talk bad behind her because rumors might spread and she might know what you said about her
2012-02-07 12:46 pm
Just screw her. People like that aren't worth it, trust me.
2012-02-07 12:42 pm
Make new friends
2012-02-07 12:39 pm
i think that go address her face to face is the best way to solve this problem . instead of walkin away from her it wil only make u feel bad
參考: my opinion
2012-02-07 12:38 pm
She's not worth your time and commitment. If she won't make peace, you don't need her. You have other friends. Distance yourself, and move away from her.
Even if she's jealous, she won't admit it, so that doesn't matter at all.
You should talk to your other friends, and maybe record her and you fighting so they can see her true side for themselves.
2012-02-07 12:35 pm
Ask her why shes acting so strange. Tell her what you just told a million strangers on yahoo! It's not too late.. If all else fails, you can go on omegle.com and talk to strangers!! (it's anonymous) haha! Good luck!
參考: Meee(:
2012-02-07 12:31 pm
Just sit down with her and talk ro her face to face in person, and explain the conflict. Ask what she's feeling, then ask if you two can still be friends.

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