成績好差 我覺得好唔開心

2012-01-13 1:19 am
我係一個Band 1 中五生,即係第二屆的DSE考生。
為了考入一個好的大學,我每日都用好多時間去溫書,不過成績總是去唔到最top。雖然好多科都會係全級頭十,但我對自己的要求好高,始終都要係最top先至開心。我有個同學,本來交情都幾好(我地冇咩友情),但係佢就科科考第一,搞到我真係好嫉妒佢,搞到自己好唔開心。
無論成績係頭十,我都仲係覺得唔夠。我唔會覺得考到頭十就算好,起碼都要頭五囉!我明明比佢付出左咁多的努力,點解得出黎的結果會同佢差咁遠?

希望有人可以開解下我。

回答 (7)

2012-01-14 9:04 am
✔ 最佳答案
其實你所付出既時間,你既心血,都冇白費。


既然你係Band1既,成積點會差? 日日用咁多時間讀書,考到Band1既頭十名,已經係Band1頭啦。你覺得你既成績唔夠你果位同學好定係唔抵得佢又或者佢做人有d方面唔係咁好,你憎佢點解你d成績夠佢好。

成績係自己既,點解要同d外人比,考左自己盡左力既試,問心無愧啦!

其實我覺得成個問題係因為你唔抵得你果位同學既成績比你好你先會唔開心,你又點知人地既付出比你少呢,可能人地既付出比你更多更多呢。

你試諗諗,全香港e+f.4-f.5既學生有成16萬個,你就係bnad1頭既,咁已經係成績最好既果2萬個學生又或者更前,大學就一定收,成績冇最好果個,亦都冇最差果個,自己盡晒力就夠啦!



你試下忘記你果位同學佢,唔好同佢做比較,就唔會搞到你自己唔悶心。如果你想成績真係再進步既,諗諗自己有冇用錯方式黎溫書,令自己唔舒服, 你要搵出最岩自己既感覺黎做野,搵出最舒適既感覺,人都開心d啦!

希望你個人開心d啦=]
2012-01-18 5:46 am
我明白你既感受....
有時我既付出明明乎比我d 同學多
但就好似叻5過佢地
我個同學溫書溫幾分鍾
就可以背到d英文
而我呢?
溫咗二個鍾都系冇效果!
溫完好似冇溫!
2012-01-18 12:48 am
想成續好,要掌適合自己的學習方法,及有計劃及效率甘應付考試。心理狀況都好重要,明白你想爭勝,正面睇你有動力,又上進,但從另一方度睇,你甘樣競爭法,會讓自己添加壓力及過大的心理負擔,未必係好事。所以一句到尾,做好自己,人比人比死人,始終係這個世上,實有D人係不同方面叻過自己!

加油!撐,比心機,有需要,可以交換電郵,分享下
2012-01-13 9:36 pm
one thing you must know is that, the length of time you study may not make you academic result better, it is the way you study that makes is good. it is good that you have high requirement to yourself, but don't push yourself too hard. too much pressure will only make it worse. I don't think you should compare with others, because everybody is different. i always compare with myself only. every time i tell myself that i have to be better than last time, no matter how much, even improve only 1 mark is good too. i found that more effective for me in pushing myself to improve.
to tell the truth, you are already very good being the top 10 in a band 1 school. have more confidence in yourself and don't compare with others. you are yourself and everyone have different strength. if you really want to achieve higher, i would suggest you work on exam skills. but a very important thing is don't let comparing academics affect your relationships with your friends and schoolmates, you still have another year with them.
2012-01-13 6:15 am
都明白考DSE有好多uncertainties牙...
我果陣考al都係牙...
一試定生死,,,
但我覺得你都可能要明白下每個人既本質同吸引都唔同架wor...
有d人可能一理通百理明...
但有d人就可能要讀成個月先岩岩合格...
我就係後者啦...

不過如果成日拎自己黎同人俾...
會好辛苦,,好大壓力架..
但我都認同你對自己set目標係好架...
老土d講句...你既人生係要挑戰自己,而唔係人地...
所以我覺得你set比自己top 5都係好架...當係挑戰下自己牙ma...

anyway,,,十卜你架...
努力比心機考好個試牙!!!
想再傾多d既...
add我msn牙...
[email protected]
我都想知道多d DSE既野牙....
2012-01-13 2:17 am
其實我同你一樣 付出左咁多的努力 都係差過 付出得小個d人 但係你都好勁架啦 因為你係一個band1生 係其他band2學校你就係第一啦 而且你係band1都好多科都係全級頭十啦 so我覺得你都唔洗咁唔開心
2012-01-13 1:37 am
我覺得..你其實好好, 因為你已經好快識得驚呢個考試制度~
我欣賞你咁快就識得去諗自己既將來, 同埋為成績而努力架!!!!

你自己係點溫書架??
你係BAND 1既學校, 其實對於上學係咪都唔擔心架??

有時候見到朋友仔同自己都咁努力...但結果成績卻差過佢...老實講..我都會覺得好唔開心...又覺得..真係冇理由會咁架喎~~
但你自己唔開心過後...又會點做架??

我都好想聽多D 你既故事~ =]
想傾既, 你可以add我MSN: [email protected]

加油呀~唔好氣餒呀~~

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