個best fd 覺得我理得佢太多煩住佢

2012-01-12 8:13 pm

我上年開學識左個best fd, 唔夠半年就開始傾心事,之後我地食飯又一齊,放學又一齊走,考完試會去佢屋企玩過幾次tim,不過緊呢年,我係學校做左個重要職位,我亦都比左佢做我嘅「手下」,但係我少左好多時間同佢一齊之外,我地兩個亦少左一齊,我都覺得自己變左。

佢前果排我sense 到有啲唔妥,我行過去佢果到佢特登行開,佢亦都少左好多同我傾計。我有次問佢咩事,佢終於肯同我講,話唔gue 我,話我攬得太多野上身,話我成日理埋啲唔關我事嘅野,成日係佢身邊出現。

甘我認我有時真係成日放佢係嘴邊,但係我心諗,我平時對佢都唔算差啊,有咩佢問得到我嘅我都幫佢無托佢手睜,佢做我手下,佢有咩要求我做到嘅都會做,我仲可以做啲咩wo... 甘佢講嘅野,我改緊,我唔再好似做佢啊媽甘咩都問三問四,我仲可以做啲咩=.=甘佢同我講完之後,我都feel 到佢驚驚地我同佢反面,但係我果陣真係太不在狀態,加上要考試,我果兩三日日日上堂訓教,一夠鐘就走人,佢同前幾個禮拜唔同,有聊過我傾計,但係我衰我無理佢,聖誕果陣佢有同我傾過計,不過返到學校考試,唔知係佢放棄左定咩,我行過去,佢已經唔再理我,只係望一望我就算,走果陣,佢當我無到,我係唔係又做錯左......




我真係好唔想再同佢維持係呢個關係到,我好想返返以前嘅日子,同佢咩都可以傾,學校考試就來考完喇,但係佢好似係想避開我甘,我知到大家都唔好意思,佢可能覺得我之前唔領佢情,但係佢會覺得我同佢up 一大論會好煩,我點做好啊... 遲下約佢去打波,希望佢肯喇>.<

回答 (4)

2012-01-12 11:00 pm
✔ 最佳答案
既然你都知道自己一係就理佢太多煩住佢,一係就人地搵你都唔啋人,咁點得呢?
而且你做左高職位就當佢手下咁,樣樣你話事,再唔同以前咁,大家一樣高低,會唔會令佢有d感覺你大晒睇唔起佢呢?

同朋友相處,最緊要照顧到人地的感覺,所以大家的關係唔可以太鬆,亦唔可以太緊,如果你心情唔好就乜都唔理人,或者又好似佢阿媽咁成日要佢呢樣果樣,都一樣會影響到朋友的關係變差嘅!
其實同人相處最重要順其自然,雖然朋友係要互相關心,自己有野想同人講,會希望有個人可以傾訴心事,但又都唔想好似多一個阿媽咁樣樣都菅住晒,所以做人要在適當的時候關心朋友,適當的時又要給對方一d私人空間呀!

既然大家好朋友,當然希望大家的感情可以好好咁維持落去,咁一定要時時保持聯繫啦,一定要間中約埋一齊玩,一齊食野,有時間就傾下偈打下波咁啦!
不過,你一定要徵求佢意見,唔可以勉強,如果今次無時間下次再約,只要你有誠意,相信好快就會恢復以前咁老友咯!
2012-01-13 2:02 am
我覺得你其實係超緊張, 超重視呢個朋友!!!
同樣地..佢話你「攬得太多野」...我覺得佢好重視你...同埋擔心你太辛苦..

你多左活動之後..係咪少左同佢相處既時間??
朋友之間..其實都係要雙方既付出, 互相支持,互相扶持架!!!

你其實都重視佢...更唔想冇左呢個朋友, 係咪呀??
會唔會可以試下行多一步, 讓佢都知道你係重視佢架??

唔好放棄呀~~我都好期望你地既關係可以轉好~~
搵到一個自己夾得埋既朋友係好難得架, 你要珍惜呀 =]

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2012-01-12 9:19 pm
唔好成日係人面前講佢,同埋唔好成日理佢D野。
2012-01-12 8:50 pm
Actually same case here...But I am timid,she doesn't talk to me aand I don't talk to her...I don't know what should I do...I know I am not her best friend,I just want we two like the past,I just want she to talk to me and stop ignoring me,that's hurt.She has my telephone number but she will never call me and I don't have her telephone number once but when I call her mobile,she will never answer my call.I know I have done something wrong but I don't know what's wrong is with me.I just want she to talk with me,is it difficult?She can say anything,even it is boring,I will also be happy.I want to sit with her at school again but I know I cannot sit with her again.I want to go back to the days I sit with her and I will treasure it.

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