性格分裂問題 ~

2011-12-31 8:43 am
其實呢個問題困擾左我好耐 真係唔識解決 ~
係咁既 :::: 其實我都唔係太清楚自己真正既性格係點 ..
對住啲陌生既人(新同事新朋友)真係好內向,被動,細膽,不健談,怕煩到人同埋唔易信人 但好要面 因為我好怕啲人係我背後講我壞話
第一因為大家真係唔熟同埋我怕我既話題煩到人 而且好少會諗到咩就講咩 每次講出口既野都會諗一大輪 怕會令到人討厭 就算搵到話題講但如果人地唔回應又覺得好冇面 有時連想講(我想去廁所 , 我想走先等等)咁簡單既說話都講唔出口
對住啲比較熟識既人 好自大 好野蠻 可以玩得好放 , 總之同對住陌生人完全係2個人黎
可能會以為呢啲只係平常對陌生人既做法 , 我有試過叫自己大膽啲唔洗怕 ,有朋友同我講番其實只係因為見到我個樣好cool先唔同我傾計, 但心理關口真係過唔到 只要我一見到個陌生人個樣係唔友善既 我就會即係好驚好驚 , 所以有陣時唔係我唔想同啲陌生人傾計,其實只係我唔夠膽同人傾計 總之真係令到我好頭痛 t^t
所以我就想問下各位 我算唔算係性格分裂? 同埋點樣可以解決到我呢啲咁既性格? 麻煩各位 !!!

回答 (6)

2012-01-06 12:08 am
我既情況同你一樣
我既fd同我講有時吾同我傾計係因為黑口黑面
好cool咁……如果有時人地吾多理我既話
我就會好cool,佢問我野都會cool
但E種吾係性格分裂架!!!
2012-01-01 9:44 am
i am just the same with you. in fact i just went to another country to study and i have to make new friends again here. i am really afraid when i see people i don't know. even some classmates, i have been in a class with them for half a year and i still didn't have to courage to talk to them. they are very nice and friendly, but as you said, i can't go through my 心理關口 also. and the same as you, i can be very crazy when i am with the friends i am very familiar with. i don't think it is a problem of 性格分裂. if it is, i will be having the same problem with you. don't worry too much, i usually let it happen naturally, somehow someone will come to talk to you, or it may come to a situation they have to talk to you so you can know them more then
2012-01-01 2:50 am
你唔係性格分裂,只係社交焦慮/社交恐懼症


好多靜既人都好似你咁.我都一樣
根本就唔想咁cool,但奈何真係冇膽行出一步...

所以好少朋友/識唔到朋友...因為人地覺得自己勁悶 T^T
2011-12-31 9:50 am
你嗰啲不是性格問題!是心理障礙問題多啲喎!你是屬於內向型!放開自己,多啲和其中人溝通啦..........
2011-12-31 9:48 am
性格分裂我就唔知你係咪喇=.=

不過應該都唔係,,因為我覺得你呢個情況我都試過,,

今年五年班我大膽左,開朗左,之前都係好似你咁唔夠膽出聲,唔敢同陌生人傾計,,

不過我大膽左既原因係乜..應該係老師唔惡既問題掛..
不過你唔好為呢個問題而頭痛,因為你咁樣頭痛落去都係無保於事架

所以我覺得你,,只要個人開心啲,,大膽啲咁去同人傾計,,不過唔好係街到無啦啦同

人say hi XD

最後都係希望你解決呢個問題~Merry Christmas,xd
2011-12-31 9:39 am
可能是你的天生的性格, 也可能是你小時候與陌生人有過一些不愉快的經歷, 成為了一個心結。 (要知道對小朋友來說, 即使有些事大人覺得很小事, 小朋友也很容易心靈受損的。)

如果是後者, 只要回想過去, 找出心結, 化解及安慰你內心孩童的不安情緒, 就可以解決。

有些人天生不太擅長與人溝通或建立關係, 不過如果想改善也是可以的。

我是美國臨床催眠治療師, 想傾吓可 PM我。

(心想事成: www.001miracle.com/wish1.html)

收錄日期: 2021-04-25 23:38:21
原文連結 [永久失效]:
https://hk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20111231000051KK00028

檢視 Wayback Machine 備份