咁係我錯嗎???

2011-12-26 12:24 pm
件事係咁,我有個識左年半個fd(佢都係女仔),我地好friend咖,但係我地經過左一次旅行之後,本來第一日都無野,但係到左第二日,我一訓醒,佢就好似變左第二個人咁,我問咩佢又5睬我,佢對我超冷淡,同左另一個女仔仲fd過"之前"ge我,我心諗5通係我有咩做錯左??????但係我應該無做錯到d咩野



跟著返黎之後,我係度諗應5應該問佢發生左d咩事,終於我都問左佢,我話"其實你係米嬲左我呢???",佢好串咁話"吾知呢??",我話"你5覺得我地去完旅行,好似疏遠左咩???",佢又話"吾知呢"??,我個陣已經有d嬲咖la,但係我仲話"sorry,其實如果我做錯左d咩,你5怕講喎??",之後佢又好串咁話"吾知呢???"我心諗大佬呀!!!咩都話5知,你想點啫????"佛都有火la\___/



我d fd(同佢都幾熟),佢地叫我同佢好返,但係我同佢地講"點解你要係我對e個fd死心個陣先講",佢地根本5知我對e個人留過幾多眼淚??可能佢對我真係好大影響la,我個fd都話我點解無以前咁開心??而家ge我,同佢完全無交流,我無同佢講過一句野(一個月lu),雖然係咁,但係至少我比以前開心左好多la.....我5會再對e個人有咩希望......


其實我咁做係米真係岩呢???我咩都做哂,人地5領情,我真係無計,不過,我諗點解一個人話變就變得咁快咖??如果佢同我道歉,咁我應5應該同佢好返???


sorry,篇野太長la,請耐心d睇^^

回答 (9)

2011-12-26 8:28 pm
✔ 最佳答案
我覺得不是你的錯!因為你已經道歉了又問她什麼事!是他不答而已,他不是以為你是神,知道發生什麼?又不是以為你是她肚那條蟲,知道她想怎啊?如果是這樣,我認為你不要再理她了!因為你已盡力了,剩下來的事,是由她自己決定!

如果她想同你做朋友,她就會主動找你!不想的話,你問什麼,她都不會答你!

不要為了同一件事而辛苦自己這麼久...是朋友應該是體諒的

其實你還可以發他火,講:為什麼你件件事都不知道?如果你不想和我做朋友就講出來,等大家的心都好過點!無謂只是答不知不知,我又不知錯在哪裡?
2012-01-04 4:37 am
你咁做一D都冇錯,人地5領情,佢既事.
橫掂你E+比以前開心好多,
無為為左一個咁難相處既人,增加D不必要既煩惱.
你係冇错既話,唔需要擔心.
2011-12-28 6:51 am
佢做得太絕啦,你同佢道歉,佢聽都唔肯聽,仲要比面色你睇,太過份啦,欺人太甚,佢要嬲你,至少都要比你知係咩原因,無理由咁樣十問九不應,咁樣既朋友要唔要都罷,我支持你既決定,如果佢真係有一日良心發現,同你道歉你要睇吓佢係咪有誠意,先至好接受.
2011-12-27 12:06 am
你地一定有誤會啦.如果吾系吾會突然發晒脾氣啦.不過我覺得個女仔都系吾岩咯.
有野最好灘開來講.甘樣做法好難相處咯.
如果佢同你SORRY個話.你就算可以同佢返朋友.但都沒可能返到以前啦..
自己開心就好啦.吾好煩甘多.返正你都做晒你該做既野啦.....
最緊要系過好自己既.對得住自己良心就萬事都好
祝:
開心快樂!!!!!!!!!
2011-12-26 11:18 pm
條友明玩野,你不要再理他,自討無趣的。
2011-12-26 8:25 pm
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2011-12-26 5:25 pm
我認為妳無做錯,只係可能妳同佢之間有D誤會,亦有可能她聽了一些討厭妳的人作出來的壞話,亦相信了,就變成這樣~
如果佢同妳道歉,就應該要原諒返佢,在問下佢究竟之前發生左咩事,令到佢變成咁
如果佢無同妳道歉,妳就唔好再唔開心,因為可能佢想玩妳,睇下妳D反應
與其唔開心,咁不如同其他Friend增進感情:)
祝妳早日開心:)
2011-12-26 3:14 pm
應該同佢好返, maybe she is just kidding, and see do u care her, give her 1 more chance lol
2011-12-26 2:25 pm
I have similar experience as you too. Luckily after half a year not talking and avoiding each other, we make up and become very good friends again. It has been four years and i still have no idea what i did wrong at that time. but i think sometimes it may not be something you did wrong. it may be influence by other friends she made. you said that she became very good friend with another girl after not talking to you right? it may be that girl who influencing her. when she answer you "吾知呢" , she may be really is not sure why she is not talking to you anymore because she is just influenced by her other friends. that is my case. what i will suggest you to do is wait. i don't think it will work even if you apologize because it may not be something you did wrong. if you are a christian, you can pray for God's help.

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