做第三者? 退出?

我不會建議你任何做法,畢竟這個都是關乎自己的人生大事。不過如果我是你,我會退出!我不會做第三者。

首先他男生如果真是對自己有意思,他就會為了自己而跟女朋友分手之後同自己表白,而不是等自己表白再同女朋友分手,你不覺得這樣做的男生是好可恥的嗎?而且還有少少當女朋友和自己是水泡一樣...不管他有沒這個想法,他沒為自己而跟女生分手,就已經知道他重視自己去到一個什麼程度了。

另外亦有可能,他想一腳踏兩船!如果他真是喜歡自己,但一直不和女朋友分手,一定有什麼原因!這樣的話,如果自己同他表白,他又會不會真是分手啊?識諗啦!

之後,你講到現在他們感情淡而已,如果自真是插入了他們的關係,之後他們有一天感情就回復熱戀,自己就無疑變成第三者...到時想退出又不捨得,但不退出又會惹人討厭,到時怎麼辦? 就算不是這個原因,到後來那男生可能會知道自己真正喜歡的是女朋友,而和自己講分手,這樣自己不是還傷心嗎?

如果個男生真是喜歡你,自然會同女朋友分手,自然會同你表白!

如果佢冇咁做,咁就當發左一場夢...之後再搵好男人啦!

同個女仔鬥到底...唔好輸比佢呀!
唔洗同個男仔表白...只係輕輕啜佢一啖就得...佢如果唔知你做咩嘅就同佢講i love u

但佢地感情一直有問題 淡左dd 不過一直冇分到手 而個男仔對我有d意思

係你覺得佢地感情淡咗,還是個男仔同你講?

如果係佢同你講,一定是在騙你,邊度會有完美的情人?你可以肯定你同佢一起感情就冇問題?佢都唔可以包容她,你又肯定佢可以包容你?

你想一下,佢地開始的時候難道冇感覺? 說不定像你現在的感覺一樣,甚至比你和他之間的感覺更熱烈,所以佢地就係埋一起了.淡咗但總有記憶,如果佢地曾有過甜蜜美好的回憶,到時他後悔了,你又點算?

佢地真係冇咗感情又分咗手,而你又未找到男朋友,再考慮la.

做第三者會好辛苦,而且大家都是女人,點解女人要傷害女人?

等咩嘢, 呢個世界又唔係得佢一個男人,留意下身邊,可能有更好的等你去發現呢!

而個男仔對我有d意思 ?

如果佢系專一 / 對女朋友好

根本吾會對你有意思 !

( 甘就證明佢吾系好男仔 , 吾專一 )

當真系同你拍拖佢又好易鐘意第二個女仔

甘你點 ?

但佢地感情一直有問題 淡左dd ?

淡但點解冇分手 , 甘證明吾系大問題

中意吾一定要擁有佢 ,
系咪全情愛上佢 時侯放手 , 對你系好事

吾系佢又吾分手 , 都吾知拖到你幾時
( 可能系幾年時間 )

應該努力讀書, 唔應該拍拖, 做女仔唔拍拖,唔結婚都無所謂,真架,做個女强人重好,自己養自己,自由自在!

退出? 自己決定,你仲年輕.
男既本性唔好聽講句見到靚少少都心動.
而你個樣就應該生得Ok~
今日佢見你樣好對你有意思.
它日佢見到又由其他人靚,難保他不會犯同一錯誤!
而你如何能留住男友而他不會找尋新歡.
呢個又係另一個問題~

你同個女仔係咩關係 係好重要 如果唔識 你可以同佢講 如果佢真係中意你 佢會同另1個分手 同你一齊 如果唔中意佢會拒絕你 如果叫你做第3者佢就一定係玩玩下果d
如果你同個女仔係朋友 就要諗下 你地自己既關係 個女仔會唔會嬲左你 令你地有得做朋友 值唔值?(這個自己想)

Suggest to keep your options open, instead of limiting yourself to this guy.
If as you mention the guy's relationship with his current girlfriend, it seems that this guy still need time to decide....that could take a short while or a long while. You could be wasting your time, this would be poor investment for your time.

If he decided to stay with his GF and you let him know you are interested at him, are you suggesting him to leave his GF? If he does, you could be the trigger for his action, or an excuse. He may regret it later on.

P.S. If the guy is interested at you, he should find enough courage to let you know. Man without courage to do, may worth your second thoughts. Do not assume anything, that is very dangerous.