I need some help ....?

2011-11-28 4:02 am
i feel bad about myself very much, i am a immigrant from other country, ever since i came to america, i've been feeling very upset because of the fact that i had to make new friends. but i feel like the older i got, the more depressed and lonely i feel..... i am 18 yrs old now, these times are hard for me.....
i dont know how to socialize well, i've joined a soccer team and i have to say i dont have a close relationship with the teammates around my age. i dont even talk to them, i seem like a stranger... and nobody wants to talk to me, no one wants to know about me..... i heard they talked about many stuffs but i can stand there just listen because i got nothing to share... i have to admit i am very shy, but i guess that is not the only reason why i act like a stranger. i didnt kmow what to say, i feel that i got not much to say, and no one cares what i want to say. i dont know man, i am grown not a kid no more, i do have some true close friends, but not much just a few friends i feel good being together. but on the soccer team.. i dont know man..... tell me what u think, thanks.

回答 (1)

2011-11-28 4:11 am
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Its quite obvious thats it little tough to get socialize in a new country...atleast in a new place. Slowly try talking to one or two in the soccer team. First take an initiative step and for sure you will get the confidence.
Dont underestimate you. And ofcourse no one in the world is born a star.
Try to open up. Get updates on latest music, latest news...crazy things. Try to more updates on what your age people gossip or discuss about.
All is going to set right and I am sure u will have the happiest moments in life soon.
All the best

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