I need help about this gal?

itguru5354

2011-10-19 6:02 am

Long story short. Now, I wanted to schedule lunch with this gal on Friday, but she said she is free for most of the day on Thursday. However, I have to work on Thursday, and I told her about it. She hasn't replied. She orginally said she was available on Friday, but it's now a complete different story. I'm very uncomfortable about this. I don't know if she still wants to meet me or not.

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Why is she playing hard to get? I just wanted to ask her for lunch to get to know each other (at least I can find out whether she is the type I should pursue.) Well, yes, I do have an ego. I do not like to be disrespected whether you're a guy or a gal.

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[匿名]

2011-10-19 6:09 am

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you are going to have to push your ego aside and ask her out again.find a time when you are both free.she is the only one that can tell you.we can only assume.you should be able to feel comfortable asking her questions if she is a down to earth,mature person so you dont feel confused.communication with a person is so important or whats the point.it is called drama when it gets confusing,etc.
if this chick is behaving this way and leaving you to question her then maybe you should find someone you dont have to question.you said she couldnt make it thursday but friday she could but you cant so your going to have to ASK her out again when it is convienient for both of you.yes,it can be hard when you dont understand the persons personality right away and rejection is no fun but its party of the DATING scene untill you find the right person to settle down with.if she leaves you hanging after you ask her again then you have got your answer and will know that she plays games and is not mature enough to step up to the plate.there are some people like that out there.we all have met them.

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