我好憎自己
我呢,大幾2年前過左黎歐美地區,一直都冇乜朋友.冇計啦,英文唔好,最多就點頭拎頭.香港D朋友都唔鬼理我,由得我死.試過上網識人啦,得D大我3,5,7年o既男人走黎識我.搵女朋友呀,搵情婦咁喎...唉,我夠想搵個男朋友啦.無奈我係外國呢,仲要去埋哂d鄉下地方.唔係我話,講個名出黎,你都唔知係邊...結果咩人都識唔到,個個剩係當我低能仔,低B妹
仲有一年都唔夠就高中畢業,想搵間好D既大學,但以我D爛英文又可以點?去打工?咩都唔識,做野又慢.之前去做part time老闆都頂我唔順,成日做錯野.明知要讀好D書,但又的唔起心肝.始終冇乜成效..我真係唔知可以點做...再講落去...肥左又多暗瘡,成個人同係香港果陣完全唔同...
唉...好想走呀,無奈又冇錢....我可以點做?我好想改變自己!!有冇人可以救我?
回答 (7)
我覺得呢
就咁聽你講呢D
或者你問題根本就係英文唔得 唔夠自信同勇氣
首先 或者你先努力學好英文 雖然係辛苦
但為左你同人GE關係 學業 工作等就努力吧~
同埋呢 你話你好多野都做唔好 唔得
或者只係因為你一直覺得自己唔得 唔可能
試下 比D勇氣 試下一步一步咁改
只要你肯行第一步 只要你唔好易放棄
另外呢 我記得 我睇過本書 叫放開雙手 擁有的即是一切
或者 你試下跳出問題本身 用旁觀者和積極的角度檢視一下自己GE問題
通常 你會發現其實都唔係咁差的
我同你做朋友呀:):)
我係大約一年前黎左美國
我同你用英文email呀
同你email等我地D英文都可以進步
仲可以識朋友,交流一下
等你可以開心D,我都開心D:):)
我叫做lily呀:D
my email:
[email protected]
hope you'll be happier:)
問題係:的唔起心肝.
原因可能係因為你肥左.
所以第一步你要做的便是減肥.
人生吾系只系得愛情同工作 :
吾好用多時間系咦兩方面
讀完書可以有吾同發展 :
可以反香港學一門技術 ”
美容 ,
又可以改善自己外觀又可以幫人化粧
/ 玄學 / 做社工 , 福利機構...
一定搵到你自己興趣
所以吾需要吾開心 !
有這樣的思想代表你已漸漸成長,是時候去撤底想一下人生的目標與理想。我想信每個人都應該對社會有所貢獻,定下屬於自己的目標,努力克服困難,向理想邁進,我相信你可以做得到。
Don't worry you will be fine. I had the same problems as you when i first
came to the US didn't know english didn't have friends and pimples all over my
face
the most important thing you should do right now is to learn english borrow
books from the libaray, watch TV, movies... so you can start a conversation
with your classmate when you know them well enough ask them for their
facebook, phone number, hang out on the weekend...
if you think your english is not good enough then go to a community college
first and explore the many majors they have to offer and see what you are
interest in and if you don't have money you can apply finical aid from the
goverment
there is nothing you can do without a college degree except for the low paying
jobs remember 'knowledge can change your fate'
妳的問題,只是所有青春期的少年男女面對的同樣問題--------就是無自信,如何建立自信心才是最重要的行動。
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