How can i get my girlfriend to stop thinking thiss about me ?

2011-10-08 4:18 am
well , me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years and its been on and off , but we love eachother and everytime were together like at school or something and some other girl looks at me and says hi and smiles then i just say hi back but i dont look at them with a flirty face just like a hello there kinda hi . automatically she thinks i like them ! when i dont ! and i tell her i only love and like her thats it . and she gets mad at me but when she sees other people she actually runs up to them and gives them a big hug and a huge smile . like i dont understand why she does that all the time . shes been breaking up with me for saying hi ' or talking to my own family on facebook like my sister or cousin . while she flirts and talks to alot of people and i tell her how i feel but that just makes her mad at me even more . like what am i suppose to do? why does she act like that i cant do anything . i dont try to do anything hurtful thats why i dont talk to anyone but her and my family . i need help what can i do ?

sorry for it beeing longg .


thank you for helping <3

回答 (9)

2011-10-08 4:25 am
✔ 最佳答案
Shes VERY immature! If you cant even say hello, and your afraid to look at a girl and say hi because she might get mad its time to let her go. It will only get worse. If shes controlling you now it will only get worse the longer you guys stay together.
let her be. dump her. and shell change if she really loves you.
2011-10-08 4:21 am
ditch the chick.
2011-10-08 4:30 am
She is very insecure and immature. You have to have a talk with her and explain that you are your own person. Tell that love her but if she keep this behaviour it be hard to continue the relationship. This is to say that she will become worse with time. If you stay with her, she will be checking on you every minutes. Ask her to get psychological help, otherwise get rid of her.
2011-10-08 4:26 am
Obviously she's jealous and possessive and inconsiderate. If you don't mind being treated like crap for the rest of your life then don't do anything. Otherwise realize that she ain't the only chick in the world and find someone better. I know it's tough when you 'love' her, but you'd be amazed at how easily you can fall in love with someone who treats you well.
2011-10-08 4:26 am
1 word....jealousy.
The only thing you can do is tell her, hey I like you and only you. and if she doesn't listen, that's her problem...there's nothing else u could really do.
Girls can be controling. You can't let them.
And you can't block out your friends and choose your relationship over your friends. You gotta make time for both...trust ne you'll regret it down the road.
2011-10-08 4:24 am
I agree with Superjohn, holeheartedly. This girl is obviously not one to trust, and trust is key in relationships like this. Especially if you guys are still in school.
2011-10-08 4:22 am
Your gf is too jealous and isn't mature enough.
2011-10-08 4:20 am
Have a good long talk with her, If she still don't understand, get rid of her.

Easier said than done, but still. I don't see this relationship going much farther if this behavior keeps up.
2011-10-08 4:25 am
get rid of the justin bieber photo first and then ditch the chick

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