This one is for the guys, if you were married and were ready for a baby but your little buddies didn't work?

Not a man, but my husband brought this up himself several times, especially when we went in for preliminary fertility tests and he had to get his semen analyzed.

If there had been a problem with his swimmers, he would not have had a problem with me getting pregnant from a donor. In fact, the wish of having a child that is biologically ours is more MY hang-up than his. To me it feels important to carry our child. He mostly wants us to raise children together no matter how these children come into our lives.

If my wife didnt care about the baby being form her or the birthing process I would go for adoption. Otherwise if we really wanted a baby and go through the whole birthing process I suppose a sperm donor would be the best option assuming the donor was anonymous. I would not want to know the donor, just that they were not some serial killer , etc.