男朋友愛上好朋友[淚流滿面]

2011-09-20 10:51 pm
我新相識既男朋友(大概一個月),平時好錫我,遷就我

佢話佢同上一任分手,係因為上一任係港女,成日要佢買名牌比佢

但我聽聞過佢上任女友其實都有嫌佢無成日陪自己,1個人走去同其他朋友玩…

甘呢排我帶我男朋友去見我d朋友,點知佢對我個超級好朋友極感興趣,佢係甘問我好朋友既野

未同男朋友一齊之前,有隻game我唔識玩,佢死都教到我識,然後同佢一齊玩

然後佢見完我好朋友,係甘話要教我好朋友一齊玩

其實我自己都唔想疑心甘大,不過男朋友一直係甘煩我,話我好朋友唔應佢既話,就教唔到佢玩

連我個好朋友都同我講話覺得好朋友既男朋友教自己唔係甘好

我係果刻真係好想講,我揀好朋友唔要男朋友。

我應該點樣面對佢?
定係大家其實都覺得係我太多心?

回答 (5)

2011-09-21 10:26 am
^^換個想法想想~~這是一種考驗。
對男朋友的考驗,如果對方是花心鬼,總會有一日會離你而去。保到今日亦保唔到下一次。
而且另一方面係你好朋友,依你所講你好朋友接受對方機會亦唔大。你亦要相信你好朋友。這也是友誼的考驗。
一個人是否值得信賴往往都是從困難中走出來的。萬一對方令你失望,表示對方根本不能依靠的人,亦不值得自己去留戀。
不同的想法會令你有不同的心情去面對現實,當想不通時嘗試轉換不同看法去對待。你會有更多得益。
2011-09-21 1:42 am
唔係你疑心大, 我覺得你男朋友簡直係五行欠丙, 有冇理由係自己女朋友面前經常提第2個女仔啊 ?? 仲要教其她女仔玩game ?? 佢罷明想借你過僑啦, 我建意你唔好彩佢一排, 佢應該知道咩事 ?? 呢d男仔信唔過, 唔老實, 唔好浪費時間亦唔好比佢借過僑
2011-09-21 1:31 am
作為一個旁觀者,很不明白你男朋友,為要堅持教識你朋友玩GAME,和堅持要你朋友陪他玩,女朋友陪陪他玩不是更好嗎/除非你男朋友起了異心,言又自當別論,所以你的疑心,是無可厚非的,不能怪你疑心大,面對這樣的男朋友,我直覺得你男朋友有點有點見異思遷,恕我得罪,這種情況,慶幸你和男朋友拍拖時間尚短,長痛不如短痛吧,不值得和花心的男人在一起的.
2011-09-20 11:41 pm
Surely he's interested in your best friend. Very simple, if he loves you, he wouldn't do anything to hurt you, to ruin the relationship between you and him.

我應該點樣面對佢?
If you want to try to carry on with this relationship, try to talk to him what you see and what you feel about it. If things still stay the same after, I don't think he's the right one for you.

If you do not want to waste anymore time on him, just tell him the problem, and if you have decided to break up with him, then make it happen. Don't get "heart soft".

定係大家其實都覺得係我太多心?
Obviously, you don't want to face to the fact that he doesnt fancy you anymore.

Good Luck! and let me tell you one thing, this is not a big deal at all, if he's not yours, he just won't be yours. and sure you will find your Mr. right one day!
2011-09-20 11:03 pm
明白你感到很煩惱,同時覺得好困擾

回答你第一個問題先:我應該點樣面對佢?
答:坦白及真誠灌通有助減低你的疑心,佢如果唔係好似你甘想,有意向你的好朋友你出任何有意的推動,你便可以放下心頭大石。另一方面,如果佢真係重心的話,就真係要三思,傾清楚大家的關係啦!

回答你第一個問題: 定係大家其實都覺得係我太多心?
答:這個你自己最清楚,無人瞭解自己多過你,加上,連你個女性朋友都覺得你男友的推動讓她感到疑惑,就真係唔起疑心都難

所以,拿起勇氣,平伏心情,再抹一抹眼淚,哭過後就醒一醒,要勇氣面對,加油。

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