點解我會無咩朋友?...
2011-09-13 7:32 am
點解我會無咩朋友?...我都中三了男仔 樣子正常我以前做人好衰好肥如令我都改左…. 瘦左…人地講笑我都跟住笑人地打我我唔介意我唔計較我又有小小禮貌我唔講人地壞話我唔明….我講野都算多 我得一至二個朋友….我地講野都幾幽默又唔會唔認同你所講既野好多爛gag但係都係無人同我做朋友不過有時想講笑但係無人笑…….可能佢地get唔到個意思有時反而見到我同學講無聊野我隔離個女仔都笑….我唔明有咩甘好笑….我都為有掛住個笑容係面到…唉…不過現在新學年了有人主動同我講野不過我好想有話題!但係我完全諗唔到有咩話題有時都會講下學習上既野….佢唔明我幫佢有時我想講野有怕自己口臭飲左涼菜都無用好痛苦………如果唔係我可能吹好耐!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!新學年新的班有人想同我做朋友不過佢有時會找上學年既朋友玩唔理我佢叫我玩online game 我都想玩 不過係收錢game…我唔知點好如果我唔玩就少左話題有時見到facebook D人有好多朋友 我就好心酸….生日個時有好多人同佢講生日快樂而我就無……有時見到有人起個TOPIC 有好多回應….而我就無……我就好心酸….好痛苦囉….我有好想識女性朋友…..但係一個都無女仔同我講野不過 我地好難做到朋友我唔講佢會覺得我LOVE佢 好難做……又無人關心我覺得自己唔受人重視 係班人唔顯眼我就係唔唔唔唔唔唔唔唔唔明點解我會甘有無人可以幫我解答一下呀唉 唔該!!!!!!!!!!!!
回答 (7)
2011-09-19 2:28 am
✔ 最佳答案
唉，我可以同你扼手LA我又係得2.3個朋友
都好想同啲男性朋友交友
但無人會接近我
FB:
跟你一樣，
見到人地FB好多朋友，生日時都會講句"生日快樂"
但我就得個2 .3個朋友同我講。
FB都無乜朋友。
其實2 ~3個朋友都OK 架啦。
起碼有人同你傾計
我以前仲慘過你
無朋友同我一班，無得傾計之餘仲被排斥
個段日子都好辛苦
至少你而家無人排斥你。
其實你真係應該滿足架，
你要諗下，如果你連一個朋友係班上都無，
係咪比起有2~3個朋友更寂寞?
至於FACEBOOK，
我以前都同你宜家感受一樣
無朋友係FACEBOOK WALL到同我講句生日快樂，都會心酸。
直到宜家都唔會有
但你又試下反面諗下
其實無都唔緊要，起碼屋企人都會同你講
就算屋企人唔同你講，你都唔需要唔開心，
以往我會接受GE就係即使無朋友無家人同自己講都好
都唔好心酸，都唔好有一種想哭GE感覺
以堅持同堅強咁撐過呢一日
我又係一個唔被受重視 唔顯眼GE人。
至於關心，以前就好需要。
但其實你又諗深一層，
你係同其他人唔同GE，唔關心都無所謂，要撐得起。"
其實我都係咁諗，所以直都以家，即使有人關心我
我都唔覺得一個人關心緊我，因為我已經麻目左，關於沒有人關心我，
堅強左。
當你想被受重視
唔止可以講甚麼爛GAG GE
如果你班同學都中意打波
你就 接近下佢地
又或者展示你GE一技之長
咁就會突出啲
其實成篇文章都同我一樣= =
2011-09-17 9:43 pm
我諗係因為你好多時後都只係作為跟隨者..好少主動去提出自己的意見~
相反..只係多去附和..令到你D同學可能因為咁而忽略左你~~
我覺得你太過就你朋友的話..佢地更加未必會尊重你~
相反..主動去講下自己的感受..想法...
可能會令到佢地會留意你多D~~
如果真係仲覺得好煩惱..,可以一齊MSN傾下丫
msn : [email protected]
相反..只係多去附和..令到你D同學可能因為咁而忽略左你~~
我覺得你太過就你朋友的話..佢地更加未必會尊重你~
相反..主動去講下自己的感受..想法...
可能會令到佢地會留意你多D~~
如果真係仲覺得好煩惱..,可以一齊MSN傾下丫
msn : [email protected]
2011-09-15 8:22 pm
你打甘多野-__-我攞左5分中泥睇-口-
如果你真係甘想有多d朋友;就多d走埋去傾下計;
冇話題既話咪講下上課d野lor~
如果你想你自己fb多d fd;咪咩人都add囉;包你生日個時大把人同你講生日快樂呀同你一打wall個陣大把人讚同回呀;$$$
如果你真係甘想有多d朋友;就多d走埋去傾下計;
冇話題既話咪講下上課d野lor~
如果你想你自己fb多d fd;咪咩人都add囉;包你生日個時大把人同你講生日快樂呀同你一打wall個陣大把人讚同回呀;$$$
2011-09-14 1:31 am
之前形像太過差係會深入係人地心目中
要令人覺得你好係會有相當ge難度
不過你只要開始對其它人好,人地都可以慢慢接受番你
不過係相當唔容易...
要令人覺得你好係會有相當ge難度
不過你只要開始對其它人好,人地都可以慢慢接受番你
不過係相當唔容易...
2011-09-13 5:03 pm
hi,nice to meet you.
I think you have the right attitude to make friends.I think you can join more extra curricular activities to meet different people in different classes and make friends with them.Also,you can say "Happy Birthday" to your classmates and they are more possibly to say "happy Birthday" when at your birth.Also,do not eat some irritate food (spicy food) , it will make your mouth feel smelly.You can try to post something your classmate know,like some newspaper or find some jokes in the internet.
Never give up!~~
2011-09-13 09:10:09 補充：
Also,you said that you have 1 to 2 friends and a classmate invite you to play online game
keeps on this relationship
you are only 15yrs old,when you are 30 ,you have at least 10 friends
when you are 45,you have at least 15 friends
when you are 60,you have at least 20 friends
I think you have the right attitude to make friends.I think you can join more extra curricular activities to meet different people in different classes and make friends with them.Also,you can say "Happy Birthday" to your classmates and they are more possibly to say "happy Birthday" when at your birth.Also,do not eat some irritate food (spicy food) , it will make your mouth feel smelly.You can try to post something your classmate know,like some newspaper or find some jokes in the internet.
Never give up!~~
2011-09-13 09:10:09 補充：
Also,you said that you have 1 to 2 friends and a classmate invite you to play online game
keeps on this relationship
you are only 15yrs old,when you are 30 ,you have at least 10 friends
when you are 45,you have at least 15 friends
when you are 60,you have at least 20 friends
2011-09-13 9:45 am
我好明白您既感受(-口-'')
我讀女校既比您仲陰公.....
其實唔一定您善良識講gag就有朋友嫁:)
好睇您主唔主動同埋人地對您既印象;;;
咁你緊係要主動啲**唔好zai等喎..
咩都走過去聽下 八下..
岩傾就講唔岩傾米訓lo
話題衣啲野係岩key既就唔洗愁嫁啦..
唔好咁痛苦為左搵話題去搞咁多野..
做咁多準備功夫超浪費時間._.
facebook係一個好好既識朋友平台O:)
您平時得閒冇野做米留下comment比人囉..
您唔比人人地點會比番您喎^^
您之後試下打下啲近況上去..
咁自自然然就有人比回應您啦..
咁最好打果啲野要合理同好笑啦:)
口氣衣樣野係學校係好常見嫁啦~口~
我建議您一定要食早餐, 之後至刷牙.
小息同lunch無論點都要食野..
總之就係唔好餓親個wai啦^^
女性朋友衣方面, 我覺得
好小會覺得您鍾意佢至同佢講野/口\
睇下您同佢傾啲咩啦..
普通可能講係功課. 之類啦..
係班人唔顯眼唔係真係一件壞事黎,
做到咁特出為咩喎..
要人關心您. 您都要關心o下人啊^^
希望幫到您啦^^
我讀女校既比您仲陰公.....
其實唔一定您善良識講gag就有朋友嫁:)
好睇您主唔主動同埋人地對您既印象;;;
咁你緊係要主動啲**唔好zai等喎..
咩都走過去聽下 八下..
岩傾就講唔岩傾米訓lo
話題衣啲野係岩key既就唔洗愁嫁啦..
唔好咁痛苦為左搵話題去搞咁多野..
做咁多準備功夫超浪費時間._.
facebook係一個好好既識朋友平台O:)
您平時得閒冇野做米留下comment比人囉..
您唔比人人地點會比番您喎^^
您之後試下打下啲近況上去..
咁自自然然就有人比回應您啦..
咁最好打果啲野要合理同好笑啦:)
口氣衣樣野係學校係好常見嫁啦~口~
我建議您一定要食早餐, 之後至刷牙.
小息同lunch無論點都要食野..
總之就係唔好餓親個wai啦^^
女性朋友衣方面, 我覺得
好小會覺得您鍾意佢至同佢講野/口\
睇下您同佢傾啲咩啦..
普通可能講係功課. 之類啦..
係班人唔顯眼唔係真係一件壞事黎,
做到咁特出為咩喎..
要人關心您. 您都要關心o下人啊^^
希望幫到您啦^^
2011-09-13 8:04 am
HI. 我是學生(Boy) First of all,I think that you do not change 你自己
Because I think it will more bad. You should do yourself. OK ? You said that you only 1-2 friends in the school. I think it is OK. If this two friends you can share with then when you meet some difficult event.At the same time , you do not find the new topic to talk with your friend. if you do not have topic , you can choose唔講。只是聽人講。Furthermore , 你如果不停找人做friend，可能會令人有過9好的feeling.所以做好自己就可以la 88
Because I think it will more bad. You should do yourself. OK ? You said that you only 1-2 friends in the school. I think it is OK. If this two friends you can share with then when you meet some difficult event.At the same time , you do not find the new topic to talk with your friend. if you do not have topic , you can choose唔講。只是聽人講。Furthermore , 你如果不停找人做friend，可能會令人有過9好的feeling.所以做好自己就可以la 88
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