Is 14 too young to have a boyfriend? How to get boyfriend?

Alright, well let me just start off by saying i think you're pretty mature for your age :P or at least you sound that way. I'm 17 years old, so it's kiiiiind of close in age, so hopefully a lot of the same things work for you, as they do for me. :)

A) Boyfriends are overrated :P. It's true xD unless you're pretty much in love/in it for sex, they really aren't that good to have! it's a lot of drama, lots of worry (sometimes), and it's really restricting in the amount of things you can do. When i say that, i mean like you can't flirt with other guys, which is a lot of fun to do. (btw, i am a guy lol, so when i say it's fun to flirt with guys, thats from YOUR perspective).

What you should aim to do, is either fall in love, or have a boyfriend for mostly entertainment purposes (sex, kissing, whatever it may be). If it's mostly just for fun, let him know that you aren't looking to be too serious! in no way am i saying you should be deceiving people. If you're trying to fall in love, DO NOT start dating your potential guy right away. Become absolute best friends first. If you guys do well as friends (and i mean are able to talk constantly without running out of things to say, for months), then start dating and hopefully it works out :)

I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now, and we started out as just friends. We got to know each other extremely well, and then like 4 months after being best friends, we started dating, and tada :) it's lasted. Jumping into a relationship too early is never good :/.

But that wasn't really your question.. so i'll answer that now ;)

No. 14 is definitely not too young to have a boyfriend. 14 is a really good age actually, plus you seem really mature, so i'm 100% sure now's a fine time to go boyfriend seeking.

That dance thing in october sounds like an incredible place to meet guys.

Okay so, when you're trying to find a guy, it doesn't really matter where you look. We're everywhere. A good place for the summer that i recommend though is the beach. It's a great place. Also, do your friends have other guy friends? friends of friends are a great way to meet GOOD guys because you know if your friends like them, they can't be all bad.

Honestly though, there aren't very many reliable places to meet guys. Movie theaters perhaps? the mall? that's all i can think of, besides like bowling allies or whatever, but you dont want to just sit around there all day waiting for boys :P. What i suggest is just go talk to every boy you see on the street or whatever. Guy's LOVE it when then girl approaches them. It takes so much pressure off of us, and is attractive actually :P.

I suggest just going up and saying hello, i'm amelie, i like your ____. That's usually enough to start a conversation. If they dont really say anything back, ask if they live around here. Then explain where you live. Ask where they go to school, then tell them where you do. It's simple :). If guys are into you, you can usually tell within the first couple minutes by how interested they seem. 1 word answers = bad obviously, if they ask you questions back, thats a good sign :D

Don't be discouraged though if things don't work out. I think you'll be fine though. Just remember, try to make friends, before anything else. And you can even tell the guy that you're just looking to meet some new friends. That takes a lot of pressure off us guys too btw :P.

The main thing is, keep at it and you'll succeed anddddd us guys are easier than you think :P. Just go up and say hello.

Andrew :)
Ps. my msn is "[email protected]", if you want me to try to help you out some more :)

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Your mom is worried because of personal experiences. She had sex at 14 and is really scared that you will make the same mistake. Reading this, you seem like a wholesome girl and for you, 14 is not too young for a boyfriend if you're just making out. Be understanding about how your mom is feeling and constantly reassure her that nothing is happening and you would never let it happen. You'll really understand how she's feeling when your little girl gets her first boyfriend.

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Is 14 too young to have a boyfriend? How to get boyfriend?
Okay, so I am 14 years old. I go to an all girls school, and have since I was 11, so I don't have any guy friends my age.

I really want a boyfriend. It's not because of peer pressure or anything, because only the 'popular' group at my school have boyfriends, and not even many of...

I don't think 14 is too young to have a boyfriend. Some of my friends have boyfriends. I don't have dating experiences,so I can't exactly answer you how to get to get a boyfriend,but I believe it's not an easy task for you,cuz I'm 14 too,I do understand that:)

im 16, i had a boyfriend when i was 14, alot of older pple will say your 2 young but thats not true, times are changing people are more mature than they think. and i believe you when you say your not lookin for sex because im 75% sure he wouldnt know what to do down there anyway. get afew of your friends who have a boyfriend or something and go to the cinema with them and his frends and it'll all just happen, start yexying people u meet .
hope i helped :)
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yep its a good place to meet boys ^^. and 14 is not young. im 14 myself and had boyfriends when i was even younger. lmfao. just try to be outgoing, open, and seem cool to talk to.

I had my first boyfriend at 14! didnt work out too well though, it was just awkward between us and it didnt even last a month, but its okay to try :)

you can find a guy that lives in your city/town online...maybe on facebook? Its better to talk to a guy online then meet him because you will be more comfortable, when you do meet him because you already got to know him online on facebook. i started to date a guy when i was 12 and now i'm 17 and im still dating the guy that i met online. so 14 is definitely not to young to have a boy friend!

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