How are these people friends?
2011-07-12 6:50 am
You initiate a chat with them once in awhile to see how they're doing. When birthday comes, you call and say happy birthday. When this and that, you call to congratulate. On the other hand, they will never do that to you. What's the deal with these people? Are these people u should stop talk to moving foward? Are you just thinking too much. They probably are busy and have stuff going on. What? too busy to send you a message? wtf.
回答 (3)
2011-07-12 6:59 am
✔ 最佳答案
Friendships are just like any other relationship--they take work and effort. You have to decide whether or not the friendship is worth it to you. If you do not feel that the other person values the friendship like you do, then do not feel guilty about not calling them. It is not good to constantly put effort into a relationship/friendship that is one-sided. It can result in hurt feelings and unhappiness. If you really enjoy serving others, then by all means continue putting the effort in. But if you wish to have more equal friendships, go find some new friends.
2011-07-12 1:58 pm
I agree - it IS a crappy excuse to say I've just been busy - but some people are just horrible at keeping contact - especially when they have a couple of things going on in their lives. And it's not like they mean too - probably, you might be just outside their circle of close friends...and life IS so hectic with work and all, that you seldom get together with friends outside your immediate circle. I say, don't make people a priority if they're only making you an option.
2011-07-12 2:04 pm
I don't know. A lot of people are just selfish.
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