Will this break your heart?

2011-05-15 2:38 am
Your (Boyfriend/Girlfriend) forgets your Birthday... Your inspiration went down the drain... Your favorite tv star died... You moved away from your loved one... What I'm asking is, Will this sort of stuff break your heart? And if it isn't one of these suggestions, then what will?

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2011-05-15 2:49 am
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In my experience "heartbreak" comes from an over investment of emotion into something or
someone. This is a misplaced desire for something that isn't really there.

There was this woman who I thought I loved. She dumped me once. I kept trying to win her
over. We were together again for awhile. She dumped me again---permanently. I had the
pain in my chest and everything. It took me 5 months before I had a happy day. I had to
arrange my schedule so that we would not run into each other.

This was a number of years ago. I occasionally run into her. I wonder what I saw in her. She
is a nice lady, but there was never anything there that warranted the effort I put into it
or the pain I felt when it ended.

So the answer to your question is that any and all of those things could cause *someone* heartbreak
if they over invested emotion inappropriately in the desire for those things.
2011-05-15 2:38 am
yes
2011-05-15 2:44 am
Some of them but What really breaks my heart is when I see my best friend crying or in pain at all, whether it be physically or emotionally. She's one of the most important people in my life and I can't bare to see or sense that she's unhappy.
2011-05-15 2:43 am
maybe moving away from a loved one...that would make me super sad.
2011-05-15 2:43 am
If a surgeon used a scalpel to cut through my heart, then it would probably break.
2011-05-15 2:41 am
If the boy that I love and have loved for several years turned out to only have been playing me and using me and actually was in deep love with another girl would kill me, and essentially break my heart. Or, having my twin brother die. Both scenarios are terrible.
2011-05-15 2:41 am
The first one might. It would have to be a girl I love going out with someone else or my gf dumping. Also other more serious things that all people wouldn't like.
2011-05-15 2:39 am
What broke my heart was seeing my best friend break down and cry because her father died.
2011-05-15 2:39 am
No none of these would break my heart. To have my heart broken can be done if the person i trust the most lets me down.
2011-05-15 2:39 am
If my girlfriend cheated on me I would be depressed.
2011-05-15 2:39 am
It wouldnt really break my heart but it hurt what would break my heart is if my dog died.
2011-05-15 2:39 am
Yes!!!!! why would you want to know that anyways!!!
2011-05-15 2:38 am
No
2011-05-15 2:42 am
yes, yes, no, yes
2011-05-15 2:43 am
Yess!!
So sad
2011-05-15 2:40 am
I would never let a guy bring me down. I never stay mad... I plot revenge..
2011-05-15 2:39 am
No

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