should i drop my close friend /: </3?

2011-05-05 5:31 am
it hurts soo much so shes my very close friend & she was flirting with a guy i really liked.
he likes me but doesnt want to talk to me cause shes flirting with him, so i guess he doesnt want me & her to get in arguement but my friend told me that she was flirtiing with him on facebook and stuff she knew i liked him alot!! . i cant trust her anymore. i dont believe in bestfriends anymore...
she just texted me "are you mad? " what should i do ):

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2011-05-05 5:36 am
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As an adult, it looks like she knows what shes doing is wrong but she doesn't care how your feeling. If she did, she would never approach him to begin with. Flirting with the person her best friend likes is as if shes taking over control and she likes it. She is enjoying that she has the ability to appear more appealing than you. Its like a competition you aren't even aware of. And thats NEVER a good sign. Real friends respect each others feelings and opinions. They would never intentionally hurt someone they truly cared about. If she was really your friend she wouldn't have flirted to begin with. I'm sorry babygirl, I hope you can figure things out.
2011-05-05 12:49 pm
more friends are likely to your friend. My some friend are same to you. Its happend to me also. But now she get merried and we are best friend.like this may be he come to you.you only show him how much you care to him. You can flirt with another boy to know if he jeolous. Show him how kind you are to other.
2011-05-05 12:42 pm
i think u should tell ur friend nd the guy u like how u feel, nd probably stop talkin with her, btw i think i know u lol does ur name start with b?
2011-05-05 12:37 pm
That was definitely a bitchy thing for her to do, but I don't think it's enough to entirely drop your close friend for. Just take her text as an oppurtunity to confront her about it and let her know how you feel. If she's any sort of friend she'll understand. According to "girl code" it is absolutely unacceptable to do that to a friend, but thinking realistically, although it might hurt, something silly like this is an awful thing to destroy a friendship over that has the potential to last forever, much longer than a stupid teenage relationship.

So my answer is no, don't drop her. But definitely don't let her get away with it thinking it's okay either. Good luck pal! :)
2011-05-05 12:36 pm
If your so-called best friend totally ignored what you think and your feeling, you should no longer call her "a friend" as she isn't.

But the most important thing is whether the boy you both love really loves you. If yes, you and your boy can join together and knock your "friend" down. Or else, you're the one who bothers the love between the boy and "friend".

Come on, confess to the boy and you will know how to do then.
參考: My wee experience
2011-05-05 12:34 pm
Tell the boy the has a herpes and make him swear to warn all the other guys but never disclose the source of the information.

The only payback that matters, is the payback I get.

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