我喑戀一個女仔只能過節或她生日發短訊…

你只係暗戀人地,又知道人地有男朋友,只係間中見到佢,或者生日同過節時發短訊,咁識左三年又點吖? 就萛過多幾年都一樣係咁樣咋!
你問唔知佢想點?
我覺得佢無乜點吖,因為你地以前係同事,現在又同一條街返工,咁大家朋友見到傾幾句,間中講下笑都好平常,而且你過節生日都發短訊,咁其實佢都係當你係好朋友啫!
我覺得你其實究竟都唔知自己想點就真?
暗戀係最傻的,如果你超鍾意佢,跟本上路只有兩條,就是下定決心追求佢或者放下心事大家做好朋友就算!
1,既然你已經喜歡人地三年咁耐,點解從來都唔正式向人地有d表示呢? 鍾意人係無罪的,只要佢一日未結婚,你一樣有機會追求佢,放膽d,一於搵藉口約佢出來行街食飯睇戲啦, 等節日或者你生日佢生日約佢都得吖,只要佢肯應約,或者會俾你追到佢呢!
(不過,你要預佢未必應允,或者甚至會同男友一齊來,總之如果係咁都可以等自己心息呀!)
2,如果你覺得自己點都比唔上佢男朋友,或者唔想破壞人地感情做第三者,又唔想大家尷尬到連朋友都無埋,如果你真係咁無膽就只好放棄追求佢呢個念頭,大家做返好朋友萛啦,呢個世界又唔係無其他女仔,何必搞到自己咁辛苦呢?

I agree w/ Man.
it is not what she wanna do, it is what you u wanna do. You said that you like her for 3 yrs, but how much you know her? and why u don hv the guts to tell her tht u like her.

she might know u like her, but she still chit chat w/ you, thtz mean she doesn't treat you as a normal friend or stanger or just an old co-worker.

instead of asking people what you can do, you should ask yourself if you wanna try your best to win her heart.

if you don wanna jump to there tht fast, then try to hang out w/ her more first. like call her and ask for dinner. if u know her birthday and she might celebrate the bday w/ family or boyfriend, then you suggest to celebrate the birthday with her few days before tht. at least you show her that you remember her bday and you get gd impression.there are so many things that you can do to make her happy and accept you as a gd friend first. then you can decide whether u wanna keep this relationship as a friend or tell her u like her.