我唔想離婚，有沒有辦法挽回老公感情？

妳好,我既情況跟妳差唔多,不過我老公係喺香港搭上左一個自由行大陸骨女,我都有一個10歲既小朋友,大約10個月前,我發現佢地有路,我趕走左個死佬,(由始至終,佢都冇承認亦都冇道歉),後來,我覺得婚姻生活中,我都有些做得唔好既地方,於是我叫他回來重新開始,之後既個多月,我其實覺得佢人雖然係番左黎,但係個心根本唔喺度!不過,我都同自己講,可能大家都需要一d時間重新去適應同埋定位,但係後來俾我喺電腦發現佢地仲有用QQ聯絡,而且我亦都睇到晒佢地既對話,嗰一刻,心如刀割,我先如夢初醒,重新開始只不過是我一廂情願!而最後我都係選擇左離婚,雖然到而家我都係未可以放低,正如妳一樣,唔甘心,付出左10幾年既愛,青春,仲有照顧,到頭來都敵唔過一個只識左幾個月既女人?
但係諗深一層,我已經花左10幾年時間喺呢一件垃圾度,我唔想再花多幾多個以後既10幾年喺呢件垃圾度,咁樣,我仲唔咁心,有個朋友跟我說,他朝有一日,佢病,佢老了,要妳幫一個曾經傷害並對妳不忠既人餵飯,換尿片,抹身.....,妳又會甘心?除非妳老公都想挽救婚姻,如果想既只有妳一個人,係唔可能,不如姑且放佢走,如果他日佢醒覺想番黎妳身體,懂珍惜妳同埋小朋友,到時妳先再考慮都未遲啦!
呢段時間,妳將個心放晒落妳小朋友度先,可能妳好快就有個更好既男人出現呢?
我同妳都一齊努力啦!

2011-04-17 19:27:48 補充：
(更正)如果他日佢醒覺想番黎妳身邊,

I don't think I'm old enough to be discussing this topic, but I guess leaving some suggestion wouldn't harm anyone.

This is very difficult, but you need to look at this logically, not emotionally. Your husband has been honest with you, telling you the entire situation and that is probably the worst scenario for you.

What that means is that he's made up his mind without any doubts, he wants to end this bond with you.

There's really little meaning left to tie up each other, things might get worse if this continues, if you look on the brighter side, you are free from his shackles.

I don't know if you are relying on him financially, but if you are, you can always strike a deal with him, at the very least, enough financial support for the kids.

You need to begin a new life and never look back.

Just remember, you are not alone, if you are able to stand up again from this setback, you show many people that there's still hope, that this is not the end of the world.

一次不忠,百次不容!!!!!難保佢唔會有下次,我比你慘好多,我依家當老公死咗!!!最緊要啲仔女!!!!佢個心變咗!!!!你做乜都無用嫁!!!!將來佢一定後悔!!!

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