大家可聽一個家庭的故事?

水點講得啱!

" 世事無絕對,但不要因你爸爸的問題而影響你們的成長,

反面要活得開心,快樂,"

況且, 两人的感情, 婚姻生活不和諧. 或且發生了外遇, 其實並非單一方面的事.
雖然責任好像在有外遇的一方, 其實最大問題是為甚麼會形成?

好多時花一大筆金錢去買手錶, 鑽石, 為着氹對方一笑, 但卻為對方不小心弄濕雜誌而吵大穫.......以為結了婚, 就不需要甜言, .....未結婚時, 大家的風趣, 嬌柔...婚後盪然無全.

更甚者, 未結婚時, 千方百計改變自己, 去討好對方....婚後, 卻出盡辦法, 去改变對方來遷就自己..........!

由此總總, 並非單一方的事.

我並不在場, 衹憑片言, 實不能添加任何意見的.


願祝你的困難能早日平息!

I thin the only way out now for you is to concentrate on your studies and find ways to become independent.

Doing well in your studies will make both your parents and siblings happy.

Being an independent girl will free the shackles from your father's wealth.

Your mother will be so proud of you and you no longer have to rely on your dad.

You've been kept in the dark for so long, I don't see why can't you just grind out this few more years til you are capable of taking care of yourself.


Seriously tho, he's your dad, even though he isn't brilliant in dealing with relationships, he isn't a that bad because he managed to bring you up healthy.

Your mother's got you on her side, your father is actually pretty lonely in contrast.

I understand from a woman's point of view you are absolutely furious with what your dad has done to your mother but this is coming from a man's perspective.


Anyway, whatever you decide, good luck in your future.