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It's very difficult to judge. I don't know how well you know him. If you know him quite well, then it would be a friendly invitation. If you just met him, then I would say it could mean sex. Either way, it all depends on his intention and your own interpretation. If you don't want to stay over, then don't say 'I'd love to' as it will send the wrong message across and he will just keep inviting you to spend nights together.
My interpretation on "I'd love to. But I think you are tired. You should go to bed." is You don't want tonight, but may be in the future we can spend nights together.
If you like him very much, then it's okay to say I'd love to, but just not right now. And of course as the relationship develops, he will invite you again. Saying I would love to, won't not make you look easy - 隨便 - the word for 隨便 in English is easy. You did imply that I don't desire to spend the night with you at this moment.
If this is not what you want, and you want to be polite at the same time, then say "It's okay. I think you are tired. You should go to bed." - This will give him a firm and polite rejection.
My Boyfriend asked me to spend the night at his house.?
see:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20101227113534AA1gQq9
2011-03-05 21:52:49 補充:
He asked you out and also asked you to spend nights with him meant that he wants you very much. In this sense, he clearly meant sex.
2011-03-05 22:46:44 補充:
It's still very difficult for us to judge his intention. Gentlemen have the right to ask for sex. Ladies have the right to say no. Gentlemen are still men at the end of the day. They are just not chavs.
2011-03-05 22:47:00 補充:
Even if you accepted his invitation and spent the night at his house wouldn't make you look easy or cheap. You have the right to say "you don't want to sleep with him".
2011-03-05 22:49:27 補充:
Do you want to spend the night with me? can mean a lot of things. Having sex is of course one of the activities. It's you who need to tell him that this option is not available.
2011-03-05 23:18:12 補充:
Her situation with the Frenchman is very tricky. i would say it's about sex at the end of the day. I would be surprised if that Frenchman is disinterested in sex.
2011-03-05 23:29:56 補充:
Perhaps she should write another article for The Gazatte and the title would be "Relationship: Culture Shock". xD
2011-03-05 23:35:50 補充:
She said he acted like one. So in a way you can say that there is no gentlemanness in him.
2011-03-06 09:38:45 補充:
In this case, I think it's the one who is asking the question is experiencing some culture shock rather than the Frenchman who is being naive about other culture. It would not suprise me to hear men asking girls to spend nights with them outside Taiwan.
2011-03-06 10:25:05 補充:
OKAY! HE WANTED SEX! DRINKING AND THEN SEX SO TYPICAL.!
2011-03-06 10:33:48 補充:
Your reply:"I'd love to. But I think you are tired. You should go to bed." basically meant not tonight but okay next time. Yes, for him he is going to think he will score next time.
2011-03-06 10:33:56 補充:
I think he will think you are not very but quite easy. Just met twice and not in a relationship and drinking and then asking to spend nights - that's not romantic. He was definitely looking for sex.
2011-03-06 10:38:52 補充:
He wants SEX
2011-03-06 10:48:04 補充:
Yes, well done for realising the fact.
2011-03-06 11:21:45 補充:
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