is it wrong that i am a lone wolf?

2011-02-27 2:31 am
well i use to have friends but they all seemed to fade away as time has gone by, so now i have none, every day after i get home from school i workout and just watch tv or something. I am not really sad except when my mom asks me if i want anyone to come over because she knows there is none, basically most of my friends all acted a certain way and thought a certain way and after a while i just lost interest in them and since there have been clicks for a while now it is hard to get in one, i am active but not socially, is it wrong even though most of the time i am happy or atleast not sad?

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2011-02-27 2:56 am
✔ 最佳答案
If it doesn't bother you, then its fine. But, if it is bothering you and you think you might have something like social anxiety, then you should talk to someone.
2011-02-27 2:41 am
i would recommend having at least one friend, it'll help when you need someone to talk to. Being alone isnt bad, but i feel like it'll be kind of boring D:
Im sort of the same way too so i cant say i dont have a bunch of friends either.
As long as you're happy is all that really matters.
2011-02-27 3:00 am
I had one or two friends in high school and the college years but most of the time I was by myself. At times I felt alone but most of the time I felt like I was just doing what I really wanted to do.

I know about the you act one way and most of your friends act the other way. Some people hate being without friends so much, they will put up a front just to have people to hang out with. To myself, putting up a constant front would seem tiring and it would get old after a while.

The key thing is: are you content with it vs. someone who feels left out and rejected by others?

I compare it like this:

Alone: In miserable solitude, without anyone to share with.
By yourself: Doing your own thing, your way without the company of others.

Most people without friends are alone but some people without friends are by themselves.

One of the key tricks is, if you are able to do something like eat lunch by yourself and not feel self conscious that you are the only one at your table. Another key is, if you can handle all the ANNOYING repetitive questions, people will keep asking you about not having friends.

If you are chill on the inside, then it's ok.
2016-11-18 7:54 pm
I Am A Lone Wolf
2016-03-18 9:23 am
You do what you want, of course, but the problem with being a loner is that you don't live very long. Along about the time you're 55, it dawns on you that you're nothing if nobody loves you. Then it's too late for most people to start a social life. So you just fade away. Also, heaven help you if you should fall off of one of those mountains you climb and live. With no one who cares about you, you might as well call Dr. Jack. One other thing: A mind goes stale without another point of view to challenge it. Your brain is refreshed by interaction.
2015-11-05 11:52 am
I am 24 years old, and I have been a lone wolf for the past 2 years.
I understand how that feels cause, after all, time separates people. My friends are slowly getting jobs and married somewhere out of town. Eventually, you have to look for the reason why you re doing what you re doing.
If you can convince people why you do what you do, I think you ll be fine even if you re alone
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2011-02-27 2:33 am
Friends come and go. I lost interest in my friends as well while ago also you'll be good!
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