諗唔明點解個男仔突然變得咁冷淡...希望你地可以幫下我分析

2011-02-08 7:55 am
半年前出去玩….喺一個event到識咗一個男仔之後…我地交換咗contact就喺msn到勁傾計個陣時…佢工作好辛苦…同埋佢工作上有d野令到佢好唔開心但係佢話唔知點解同唔到佢d朋友講….佢話覺得就算講咗出嚟...佢d朋友都唔可以100%明白佢既感受….不過可能我有耐性聽佢講…同埋會安慰佢…佢覺得舒服d然後佢就會成日喺msn搵我傾計…尤其係當佢自己一個人唔開心飲酒既時候我地咩都傾….雖然我覺得佢始終有d野好似唔肯講….但係我地都傾到對大家好有好感我覺得我自己對佢既感覺更加強 由佢喺舊個份工à搵新工àinterviewà有新job offerà辭去舊工à返新工呢段時間..我都一路喺到同佢傾計and支持佢!!轉咗新工..佢開心咗少少…都一路仲有同我傾傾得好地地…日傾…夜傾…開始好關心對方… 有一日我突然要出trip…去咗日本幾日….佢係唔知道既…我喺日本冇上過網....我想睇下佢有咩反應…但係返到香港..發覺佢咩反應都冇….冇主動同我傾計或者問我呢幾日去咗邊….之前90%都係佢主動同我傾計之後3個week都冇傾計…我好唔開心…我終於忍唔住問佢發生咩事佢話佢3個week去咗大陸做野所以好少上網但係而家返咗嚟喇個時我個心真係鬆咗d… 不過個次講完之後又冇再傾計(even佢喺香港)….到而家已經成個月喇....我都會有見佢上網…但係就真係少咗好多…. 好多時都係一online之後10秒又off完全冇機會同佢講野不過就算有...我都唔敢再問佢點解...究竟發生咗咩事呀!??!! 我好想知我諗我冇做過d咩令佢反感既野好辛苦…..好憎d冇答案既野究竟發生咗咩事呀?我應該點做呀?
更新1:

我地認識係in person識架 ....之後交換咗contact...就全用msn相處...

回答 (2)

2011-02-08 9:01 pm
✔ 最佳答案
how long have you been chatting for?
never seen each other face to face?

honestly, we cannot tell you what's on his mind. But if you really care him, hope keeping contact, you can have a try by asking him " do you have something not smooth?" or "how are you? we havent chatted for a long time" something like that to make sure he is willing to keep on chatting to you.

i must say the fact is online love without seeing each other is only 50/50 chance, coz you should know everyone's personality is not the same, work on someone but not the others. If he really cares about you, you will feel that.

2011-02-08 15:52:11 補充:
then, you should really think about what I'm saying coz you have the right to make your own decision.
2011-02-12 6:44 pm
你大個女了?電話太長氣了?完全無建設的話題?你不覺浪費自己時間嗎? 寂寞人多喜歡傾電話msn的。現在他對你無火花了,你放棄他吧?你從新找個有專業有學歷有愛心男人吧,你自己好好增值自己!自問自己有甚麼吸引對方留在自己身邊?美貎?專業學歷嗎?收入穩固嗎?現在好男人多是找端莊教育高等女仕,以備相夫教子的。

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