留學生的困擾 (希望幫幫我)

1. Don't worry, your mind-set do not have problem "yet" ! Your problem is same as everyone in life, which is the "new environment", "strange", "differences", "interpersonal matters", "problems", "objection"... Do you remember the first day you went to kindergarden in your life ? awful, wasn't it ? What happen after a period of time ? No rush & bear in mind, "out of expectation" is common in our everyday-life. Think, how's the clever people to cope with it n via versa !

2. Do you hate the people discriminating you ? 中同中, 黑同黑, 白同白.. How do you feel n comment about them and what do you want to be ? Think deeply to this ...until finished then C 4.

3. Knowledge & girl are not the only things you need to pick up from your education, it's moral, intellectual, physical, social, aesthetic. Inter-personal skill is 1 of them !

4. Pls find the mirror effect, kind people always stick with kind people, greedy stick with greedy! You're discriminating the people(who doesn't speak English), n they've the same feeling for being discriminated ! Your loneliness is from isolating others n others isolating you. So respect others n don't be fussy to isolate the non-Eng speakers because you want to learn Eng! In fact, do you realize they need help more than you ? They grown-up n educated in the situation with no choice. They understand what the text-book says which's probably more than you but Eng only. They get on with each others n help the best they can. They're also lonely, feared, strange, struggle like you...
"最大問題係我性格變左, 冇左自信. 內向, lonely, 返學等放學, self-criticism 同沮喪, 連識Canadian born Chinese 都冇信心, 怕自已Eng屎, 我好想去識new friends, 但....".
For example, if you were in Russia, Spain, Iraq, Japan, Indonesia to study n there were only non-Eng people n Chin. How would u be ? Think deeply in all situations. 尤其你同 Chin.講中文佢又唔蘇你. I wish if you can find the mirror of yourself.

5. 心態不是你最大的問題, 是習慣,態度和行為啊. 如你能學懂反醒, 放下主管態度, 並能發揮互相幫助精神(不論男女), 情況會很易改善凡的. 而且可令你畢生受用.

其實, 有方法打開閣下與大陸人之間的隔膜,
令生活不再 lonely and fearful, 識更多 new friends,
更多人願意與你交流

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咁中意溝女丫啦?
eng你去倒外国都唔會屎得去邊掛

你講既我理解到,我7月係悉尼讀yr8,今年升yr9,我係果邊朋友唔多,差唔多都係大陸朋友.但係一定要學識主動,由其係你岩岩去讀,主動啲會易識人啲,我真係好後悔我頭1個月都唔主動去識人,成日都係得hi/how are u,你話上堂1個人,咁你就去主動識下其他人~你日日同人地打招呼,人地係會feel到架,唔得既話咪搵第2啲人囉,你yr11咁大,冇理由1個人都搵唔到既係咪.
講埋我既經歷比你聽,有一次上cooking堂(冇唐人),同我一組果個唔係到,我局住要搵其他人,之後我雖然英文唔好,但都迫住要用英文問其他人可唔可以同我一齊做,呢個回憶雖然係唔開心,但係我主動既第一步.
希望你識到朋友啦^^