Strap on sex questions?

2010-12-31 4:41 am
This question is not meant to perverted in any way I just need some help. Ok so I'm a gold star lesbian.. never had sex with a guy, so strap n sex in a new concept for me. Me and my fiance are interested in it and have a vac u lock strap on and to be frank, its quite large and made to look like the real deal. But now the point is that it hurts. I'm sure this is normal for all first time penis sex, I just want to know if anyone else had this problem and how long it took them to adjust, And how long I should expect the pain/ uncomfortableness, cause I'd really love to enjoy it.

回答 (12)

2010-12-31 4:50 am
✔ 最佳答案
vac-u-lock? Big spender. Sounds like you went all out at the porn shop.

Sex is not supposed to hurt, ever... unless you like pain, but that's a different story.

There is no standard you have to live up to in terms of the size of objects you insert into your vagina. You have been independent of external standards in terms of being a lesbian, so why do you feel the need to conform in this intimate aspect? Get a smaller one, a nice harness, and go ahead and spend more than 50 bucks. A decent harness is universal with other dildos.

Good Vibrations is a lesbian oriented sex shop
http://www.goodvibes.com/main.jhtml
2010-12-31 4:43 am
I would try a smaller one first... strap ons are usually porn star sized and completely unrealistic.
2010-12-31 4:48 am
Why do you need strap On's if you're a true lesbian? This just shows that boyxgirl sex is the way to go.
2010-12-31 4:48 am
start with a smaller one for sure. most of those are wayy too big anyways
2010-12-31 4:52 am
Okay. no offense to you personally or anything, but I agree with Peach.
If you gays and lesbians claim that sex doesn't mean intercourse between male and a female, why do you need a strap on?

and to answer your question. it depends for each people. some people don't feel anything first time, but you should go slow first.
2011-01-01 12:46 am
the question is good with your sex partner and it is no problem with AIDS so i agree with it
2010-12-31 4:49 am
I'm a transguy and so i've used "strap-ons" sometimes, but what i use is slightly different because i use prosthetic penises, which are a lot more expensive.

What you need is a more realistic size and material to work with. Cheap dildos feel awful because they are too hard and rigid, which makes them stick into you rather then being slightly flexible like a real penis.

Use material like vixskin, or cyberskin models and make sure to only use a water based lube with them.
2013-11-17 6:50 pm
hiya, im with a trans guy and tbh i had never uses a stra on b4 so when we did wow did it hurt was way to big for strap on they dont come that hard lol we have ordered a smaller one so hoefully it works better :)
2010-12-31 5:02 am
It's different for everyone. Since you never had sex with a guy you still probably have a little of the protective feild where the strap on is pushing through, thats why it causes pain. Just give it time and you will start to fell the pleasure of it.
2010-12-31 4:43 am
o ya
my vac u lock strap on is so nice when i put in all the way up my tight meaty ear.....


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