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vac-u-lock? Big spender. Sounds like you went all out at the porn shop.
Sex is not supposed to hurt, ever... unless you like pain, but that's a different story.
There is no standard you have to live up to in terms of the size of objects you insert into your vagina. You have been independent of external standards in terms of being a lesbian, so why do you feel the need to conform in this intimate aspect? Get a smaller one, a nice harness, and go ahead and spend more than 50 bucks. A decent harness is universal with other dildos.
Good Vibrations is a lesbian oriented sex shop
http://www.goodvibes.com/main.jhtml