點樣拒絕男仔對自己嘅愛意?

2010-12-23 12:37 am
其實點樣可以拒絕人,又唔會hurt得人太深?
本人中三
我係一個做每件事都會諗後果嘅人,
我有咩事都唔會同人講,收收埋埋咁

前要: 我同佢係f.2果陣俾人傳左好耐緋聞,
但係我對佢係冇感覺,
本來大家都有講下野,不過算少
但可能俾人傳得耐,就直頭大家冇同大家講野
雖然依家f,3唔同班,但都係俾人傳緊,
其實我都因為哩件事有唔開心,只係冇講出黎,
但因以下嘅事,我知佢鍾意我


正題:咁依家放緊大約兩星期嘅聖誕假,
佢就好突然就係msn度成日都問我幾時得閒
話想同我出街,食飯等,
其實我好想拒絕同佢出街,因為我唔識同男仔單獨相處,
佢依家日日都問我邊日得閒,我又唔知點拒絕,
佢見我on msn就會問我,搞到我msn都唔敢on
我唔知點可以拒絕同佢出街,唔on msn,佢又話過會call我
但我又唔想聽佢電話,
因為我只係想同佢做朋友關係,

我知佢好快會同我表白(點解我知就唔多講)
我知佢係鍾意我,但係我根本都唔鍾意佢,我當佢係朋友


如果佢同我表白左,我又可以講啲乜會冇咁hurt佢?
有咩理由可以拒絕同佢出街?
究竟我可以點做??幫下我,plz





回答 (4)

2010-12-23 1:47 am
✔ 最佳答案
Hi, hope you can understand my english. I think first of all, you need to know something first. A boy asks you to have a meal with him doesn't really mean that he loves you, it may be just because he wants to be friends with you again, that's why he wants to have a meal with you in order to talk to you and build up the friendship.
Even though if he loves you, and you know that he is going to reveal his love to you, you don't need to be scared. You can just simply tell him that you are busy, and not used to have a meal with boys. I am a boy, if I am told by this, I do already know what's that mean and I will stop. You shouldn't let this trouble you, it's never a big deal if you find out that a boy loves you. All you need to do is to tell him clearly, and then be nice to him if you still want to be friends with him. Got it?
Life's short, don't let this kind of things trouble you a lot~
2010-12-23 8:24 am
想約你 , 你:

sorry , 我唔鍾意同同學去街 。你搵第個啦!

表白 , 你:

不如依家讀好d '豬' ,
第時上到大學
大把更好條件ge女性你choose
2010-12-23 4:44 am
如果佢係msn問你得吾得閒,叫你出去,你就同佢講清d,話你聖誕吾得閒,叫他吾洗再問,同佢講你未想拍拖,如果仲有問題可加我msn likafung1019@hotmail
2010-12-23 3:04 am
你可以直接同佢講..你唔中意佢.
但係就可以做朋友..
如果你唔中意佢既話.又唔講清楚..可能佢會誤會你ga

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