介意男友"念舊"

我見過同你一模一樣既例子...

按你既情況,我會選擇分手..
即使覺得自己有幾中意佢,都會分手..

你諗下,你啱同佢一起,你地就為佢吵架,
佢仲要對之前條女念念不忘..
俾你知道仲好似冇咩內疚,
咁喺咪啫系佢諗住之前條女,留住佢d嘢,仲要光明正大擺出來,
一d都唔驚你見到..

仲有一個好大既問題,
就系當佢同你吵架,佢竟然同佢之前條女傾..
你有冇聽過,當你難過,傷心,會搵既人,系你最信任既人??
佢同你吵,好應該搵好朋友傾,但系絕對唔可以系前女友..
因為咁就證明,佢中意既喺佢之前條女..而唔喺你..
佢想俾之前條女知道,佢先系最適合佢既人..

其實好愛又點??你愛啫,人地都唔愛,
呢份愛又可以維持到幾時??
等你搵到個愛你,疼你既人,你就會發覺,
愛唔系咁簡單..

如果你覺得你唔想放手,你先考慮一個問題..
佢點解同你一起咁耐,仲會對舊愛念念不忘??
佢系咪只因為想人陪,而同你一起??
佢唔愛你,又會系幾時拋棄你??
3年啦,你浪費3年系一個唔愛你既人身上...

I'm a guy, so from a guy's POV, i know he's doing it on purpose, at least that's what I think, but it's up to you to believe it or not.

If a guy truly loves you, he wouldn't do anything to hurt you.

He is hanging out with his ex-girlfriend consciously, not subconsciously, because the dumbest person in the world knows that should be the last person to talk to after you had a fight with your current gf.

But hey, I guess that's why you loved him so much, because you don't want to lose to his ex-gf. Let's say you could sacrifice your life for him but he'd still go to his ex-gf whenever he's down, so what's the point of sacrificing your life for a guy like him?

We human beings are a competitive species, so it's natural for us not wanting to lose. However, sometimes you need to use your brain to figure out when is the right time to fight, and when is the time to let go.

You guys have been together for 3 years, 人生有幾多個3年?

我都明白..但係可能佢仲未放低佢前女友~
你地可以約埋佢個前女友..3個人甘樣傾下;;
如果佢之後都係話鍾意前女友多過鍾意你..
甘呢d男仔要吾要都罷
都吾係專一既..分左手仲搵番人地
如果佢真係鍾意佢既前女友..
咪叫佢同番佢一齊lo
雖然好多男仔都會念舊..
但係佢始終真要明白
過左去就過左去'']
你同佢講:[我雖然吾介意你念舊牙..但係我介意你暪住我牙]
吾好成日嗌交..平靜和氣甘同佢傾下..
真係冇得挽回先分手啦\\

其實有好多女仔都介意呢樣野.包括我自已都係架.^^
但如果係我 ,我會選擇去傾..而唔係嗌交.
自已會選擇沈住氣同佢傾而唔係一路傾一路嗌.又或者嗌完再發對方脾氣
因為咁樣只會令對方更加覺得你任性..唔了解佢。
大定聽下大家意見.但唔好一開口就嗌交^^