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這2天...我男朋友說想分手.....他對自己失去信心....說他自己離開....總好過給他緣帽子....為可不信我眼中只有他....
如何的拒絕別人?令別人仍可以當我是朋友?
2010-09-30 4:13 pm
我有一個一起了2年多的男朋友,我本身有很多異性朋友,而且給人感覺算是很好相處.....從前覺有男孩喜歡感覺也會很開心,好像得到自我肯定.....現在對於外界男性朋友的追求開始有點怕,怕不懂如何拒絕和暗示我男朋友和我關係好穩定,,,傷害了人又失去好友.......我試過幾次拒絕追求後連朋友都當不成.....感覺都不好受
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2010-09-30 10:58 pm
✔ 最佳答案
拒絕人吾一定要用口講 :1) 你可以做比追你的男仔睇
如 : kiss 男友 / 好 sweet 行為
個男仔見到都吾會再追 !
更可以將你單身女性朋友介紹比佢識 ,
由佢地發展 , 可能做得成情侶 !
2) ( 男孩喜歡感覺也會很開心 ,
好像得到自我肯定 )
多人追吾一定系好事 , 因為會hurt 到男友 ,
男友會將自己比下去 / 影響到你同佢感情 !
2010-10-01 11:56 pm
被拒就失朋友是他們不夠真誠各懷鬼胎,不值得可惜.男女戀戰都是如此.
男友叫分手.叫他冷靜下先.現在就係你出招的時候.追男仔.取芳心.拍拖永设有一面倒的.男仔係比較易哄相處２年多.他的品性你唔多唔都知到.別聽了分手就嚇.重要是你以經推左別人的追求.
如果他決定不愛,要尊重他.因為他不能承受壓力如別人的取笑.分手當為他演上一場好戲免他受壓.日後你還有機會再追求他.所為日後可能是一星期後就發生.你有设有信心追到他.设有被你追求過佢唔知自己好經貴,不是街邊貨.叫好他不怕同人比.結果如何你也不要緊張.有誠意有愛都失敗他以經不值你愛了.他不合格.他借藉口分手.
不要就不會覺得可惜
記得還要讀好書.免得自己無知識成了街邊貨.
男友叫分手.叫他冷靜下先.現在就係你出招的時候.追男仔.取芳心.拍拖永设有一面倒的.男仔係比較易哄相處２年多.他的品性你唔多唔都知到.別聽了分手就嚇.重要是你以經推左別人的追求.
如果他決定不愛,要尊重他.因為他不能承受壓力如別人的取笑.分手當為他演上一場好戲免他受壓.日後你還有機會再追求他.所為日後可能是一星期後就發生.你有设有信心追到他.设有被你追求過佢唔知自己好經貴,不是街邊貨.叫好他不怕同人比.結果如何你也不要緊張.有誠意有愛都失敗他以經不值你愛了.他不合格.他借藉口分手.
不要就不會覺得可惜
記得還要讀好書.免得自己無知識成了街邊貨.
2010-10-01 1:56 am
其實妳本身有好多異性朋友好可能係因為妳有魅力,想追求妳,所以令妳感覺有好多異性朋友,如果真係咁妳都吾需要再煩惱,因為佢地只係為左做妳既男朋友而做妳既朋友!
2010-10-02 11:07:22 補充：
妳男朋友想同妳分手,妳自己都講左佢吾信妳心入面只有佢,重點就係信心,妳就要好好諗下點樣令到佢有番信心,係咩令到佢吾信任自己吾信任妳呢?知道左就要改,就吾好再做,再諗下做咩可以令到佢可以對妳有番信心,只要有心咩事都可以做到既!祝妳地永遠都幸福!
2010-10-02 11:07:22 補充：
妳男朋友想同妳分手,妳自己都講左佢吾信妳心入面只有佢,重點就係信心,妳就要好好諗下點樣令到佢有番信心,係咩令到佢吾信任自己吾信任妳呢?知道左就要改,就吾好再做,再諗下做咩可以令到佢可以對妳有番信心,只要有心咩事都可以做到既!祝妳地永遠都幸福!
2010-09-30 4:41 pm
咁得一又不可以想二,有得必有失,你還是接受現實吧,有了男朋友,講真,,異性朋友也越來越少,所以慢慢也習慣既.
2010-09-30 4:30 pm
I can read Chinese but cannot type. I like to share with you what I do to them.
I do have many guy friends. If they leave after I tell them I am not ready, I just let them go. I do not care and I am not going to loss sleep.
In your case some of them were just looking for a date. Tell them you have a very good boyfriend or mention about your boyfriend to them. But you do not mind to be friends with them. If they turn away, let them go because they are not for friends. If you insist to be friends with those guys, you will hurt your relationship with your boyfriend.
If they want to be friends, they will not leave. If you do not feel comfortable, then you have a problem. They do not.
Remember, Love has no mercy or you are the one to suffer.
I do have many guy friends. If they leave after I tell them I am not ready, I just let them go. I do not care and I am not going to loss sleep.
In your case some of them were just looking for a date. Tell them you have a very good boyfriend or mention about your boyfriend to them. But you do not mind to be friends with them. If they turn away, let them go because they are not for friends. If you insist to be friends with those guys, you will hurt your relationship with your boyfriend.
If they want to be friends, they will not leave. If you do not feel comfortable, then you have a problem. They do not.
Remember, Love has no mercy or you are the one to suffer.
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