我講分手後.個男仔唔再聽我電話.係咪代表佢心入面已經唔在乎我

2010-09-29 1:20 pm
我前排同左一個韓國塔馬仔一齊.但係溝通同上性格上都有d問題..我開頭我對佢不太信任..後來慢慢都feel到佢係鍾意我ge.只不過唔知佢有幾鍾意我....一齊左三個月...佢追我果時成日主動話想見我..又成日主動send sms俾我.....但係到左第三個月.已經變成我搵佢多過佢搵我...但係佢都keep住每日sms我....就算係敷衍的果日都會send一兩個過黎...


我覺得好冇安全感..我好鍾意佢.但係我成日覺得佢唔太鍾意我..有時諗當初佢追我可能都係因為寂寞...呢三個月我同佢講過幾次分手..頭兩次係因為覺得佢玩我..溝我只係為上床or打發時間....最後兩次係因為佢成日唔搵我....我地三至五日見一次.....每日send 幾個sms..我諗我都唔算好煩啦...如果正常ge情侶....呢個時期應該係熱戀期...應該會成日掛住對方架..所以我覺得好冇安全感....


同佢一齊三個月..頭一個月講左兩次分手..果時佢仲追緊我...之後當冇事又一齊返...第三次講分手後隔左一日...我又搵返佢...叫佢哥哥.....之後又一齊返...佢話我好飄忽...一時話分一時又話冇分.....

到最後呢次...中秋節前一晚..因為我尿道炎唔想同佢咩咩.......所以就拒絕左佢....第二日佢同我say sorry 話唔應該逼我.......我同佢講:""其實我都想.但我果度病左,所咩咩時會痛....次次同你咩咩之後都會痛.."" 唔知佢係咪誤會左我有性病.....佢冇覆我sms.....直到夜上我問佢做緊乜....佢好求其咁答我話做緊野..之後又唔覆我....直到我三點幾打俾佢.....佢聽電話話o岩o岩先收工..我問佢做乜唔覆我..佢話好忙....佢次次都係咁答我.......我都唔知信唔信佢....定係我唔識體諒佢......我知佢好忙.....但冇理由一d時間都抽唔到出黎....至少收左工可以覆返我..加上我之前同左佢講中秋節想同佢出去....但佢好似當左冇一回事咁...於是我好嬲咁sms講..LIAR, YOU SAID YOU WILL GO OUT WITH ME TONIGHT, LAIR WE ARE FINISHED....佢就話" up to you"


過左一日.....我又心軟打俾佢....send sms俾佢....問佢: really up to me? ....i know you don't really treasure...但佢都完全冇覆到..再隔左兩日我用另一個電話打俾佢..佢一聽到我把聲就話...: i will call back..但係一直都冇打返俾我.....我再打俾佢都冇再聽.send msg 同佢講...唔通我地連朋友都做唔成..我只想要你一個回覆...你答左我我會死心唔會再你..但佢都冇覆到..我懷疑 d msg 佢睇都冇睇佢就delete晒....


我知....我知係我自己衰...自己攞黎..成日掛分手o係口邊...但係我真係頂唔順.我平時嬲佢都唔會點乙水返我...甚至費事理我....試問我仲可以點...但我真係好鍾意佢..我好矛盾..佢宜家唔聽我電話..我反而好傷心..佢做到咁絕情係唔係代表其實佢真係唔多鍾意我.......所以直頭side口水同我解釋.......定係佢其實都有唔開心..但係唔想我再hurt佢所以唔聽電話.....我想知一個絕情ge人心入面其實有冇傷心..........係咪代表佢心入面已經完全將我放低...已經唔在乎?...如果佢真係鍾意我...就算佢真係嬲我成日話分手..佢都可以答我一句je...定係佢真係以為我有性病唔要我....(請標明你係男仔定女仔...最好講埋你拍過幾次拖....多謝)
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我feel到佢應該係鍾意我ge......佢同朋友一齊食飯有時都會叫我去...仲會好開心咁同佢地講我係佢女朋友..但另一方面我真係好懷疑..........佢唔理我又唔乙水我係咩意思.....佢口話鍾意我....但如果佢鍾意我點解唔多d 主動搵我.....追我果時又鬼咁熱情......定係已經玩厭左我...係唔係韓國大男人係咁...係我自己唔識體諒佢.........

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我同佢都係獅子座的.....但係點解佢咁絕情但我次次都做唔到......

回答 (5)

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2010-09-30 7:15 pm
我都同意天使娃娃的講法,一開始你已發覺性格不合,溝通又有問題,但你倆都無互相去包容同體諒,而你祇用最消極的方法----分手-----來迫佢妥協,一次就話啫,重嚟兩三次,我拍了幾次拖,佢點都唔覆你其實巳想同你分手,但男人好衰,佢唔會or唔夠胆直接同你講,因驚你唔知會有咩佢handle唔到的反應,所以恨心啲let go喇,除非佢諗清楚再揾番你,否則佢多數都係想分手。叻女啲,你遲啲一定再遇到個比佢更好啲!
2010-09-30 6:22 pm
2010-09-29 8:09 pm
唔駛搵佢,唔駛做任何野,算吧啦,唔知點答你,就算佢再返黎(會ka,想上床果時),唔信?拿你唔搵佢1個月,佢會自己死返黎ka,之後上完床,又會變返而家咁,你地都唔會好多過3個月,唔好因為唔甘心,而浪費自己時間啦...
2010-09-29 4:22 pm
About you, I think no matter how mad or how upsad you are, you shouldn't say "this is over" or "break up", such things. it seems like you don't care about this relationship that much, so why blame him for not caring? have you think of the problem.... and how to solve the problem before saying that?

as you said...these periods are 熱戀期 but you can say "分手" for more than one time...no wonder he said you are 飄忽

these few months periods, not only is 熱戀期, but also a great chance to know if you can be w/ that person....and get to know him about his lifestyle and everything, and is also a great chance to "talk" to him in heart...if you feel sometimes he treated you coldly, or you feel no 安全感, you should let him know about it.

if he cares, then he would do sth. if he doesn't, then you should think if you can be happy w/ this person....no matter now or in the future.

as you said... you two have a big different in communication and 性格, so you should have expected that the relationship won't be that easy than w/ the HK guys, right?

and you should have told him more clearly about why you don't feel well after having sex, don't just tell him "not comfortable / not feeling well".

and from your words, i feel like you don't trust this guy nor this relationship. i know you two must have some sweet memories, and it doesn't feel good to stop these sweet memories coming, but you have to consider if that is the person that you can trust and love for now and future. now, he doesn't even talk to you or msg you back, and it already hurting you. so why you have to make yourself more painful and wait for him to tell you that he doesn't love you anymore. i know it is hard to let go, but sometimes we don't have the choice but just letting him go.

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