同學溝通技巧.....

其實你自己都知道點解啦,就係你個人太無膽,對自己無信心,驚講得唔好講錯野,所以變成內向木訥了! 你想自己朋友多d,想自己受人歡迎d,就一定要主動d同人接觸,主動d同人傾談呀!既然大家一齊放學行返屋企,點解竟然可以一路相對無言,我覺得真的不可思議!既然有人主動同你講話好開心,點解你又會唔知講乜好呢? 既然有人問你又係一個人食咩? 點解唔隨即邀請人地一齊食呢? 跟本上不是同學不歡迎你唔理你,其實是你的態度使人誤會你喜歡孤獨不想合群,如果你再不改變你對人的態度,以後慢慢一定沒有人再主動接觸你的了! 首先習慣主動d同人打招呼,總之遇到就點頭微笑,叫句"早晨!","你好嗎!",之類,禮貌上別人一定會回應,而且這樣會給別人一個友善的形象! 只要養成同人招呼的習慣就自然有信心同人講話,不再木訥了! 平時要多d在家訓練自己點樣同人講話,人地問自己應該答乜好呢? 或者想想有d乜野可以問人地呢? 咁當你與人相處時就不會啞口無言了! 其實同人溝通好簡單,只要你俾自己信心,你心想乜野就放膽的講出來吧! 大家同學可以談功課,談課外活動,談自己或對方的愛好,或者談新聞趣事等等! 另外盡量對人少d挑剔,多d對人讚賞,自然大家會相處和諧了!

2010-09-27 11:51:03 補充：
同人傾講當然要有問有答就可以講落去啦!
所以你答完要跟住反問人地,或者加上自己意見再徵求人地意見!

例如,a同b傾談食飯都好多野講:
a,食左飯未呀?
b,食左咯,咁你食左未呀?去邊度食呀?去m記定大家樂呀? 美心好似平d咁喎!
a,梗係m記平d啦,我仲有優惠劵添!
b,日日出街又無乜好食,你估有無人帶飯盒呢?
a,帶飯盒仲麻煩啦,焗半日都唔好食啦!

點會唔知點樣講呢?
其實你想到乜就講乜,咁就有得傾啦!

2010-09-27 12:02:02 補充：
講開食飯,你又可以乘機約人一齊吖!
你講,我日日都一個人食,明日同你一齊好唔好?
佢如果講好呀! 咁你就有伴啦!
佢如果有d猶豫,你可以約佢遲d先都得,總之傾開就有得傾啦!
同人傾談唔好問一句答一句,要答完跟住反問就可以有機會講落去了!

e家野我幫到你
因我之前都係咁
不過有好多野可以同你講講,,
同埋我覺得要傾下先解決到你o既問題....
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you can prehaps bring some popular stuff to school

and maybe check what kind of music they like and try to find ur own favourite
singer tht might match theirs and try saying something related to the singer to attract their attention.

Its actually up to you to decide where you want to go.. prehaps get your friends to take sticker photos or gather a party for a better friendship.

Good luck and hope my tips help you..

2010-09-18 18:28:22 補充：
Maybe u should volunteer more in class activities along with the friends, during this time u could ask them where they r goin' for lunch after school and if u could join them then tell u hv some coolest thing u want to show them and give them a surprise party instead