婚姻問題 請幫幫我啦

1) 你可以先見一見 ex ,

見到 / 接觸後可能發覺佢己經變左 ,

吾系你心中的他 / 他已經有女友 !

甘你自然吾會對佢有感覺 !

2) 你只系吾慣系新婚 !

所以系需要時間識應同老公點生活 !

毎個人都會有過去的 , 不要太執著/

應該放低就要放低 !

也許是你前男友的什麼優點讓你難忘.現在的先生可能在某些地方有不足,很 自然的就拿前男友和先生對比,結果是對先生越來越疏遠,對以前的男友更為懷念..

你結婚果下就已經知道將一生一世對你身邊既老公信任, 負責, 愛佢一生一世, 呢個係一個承諾.

你老公係咪對你唔夠好, 或者係你希望佢做一d野佢冇做到, 你同佢傾下, 搵出兩個人共同認可的相處方式吧. 只要你現在生活得開心就可以忘記一切.

如果你唔同佢傾(當然唔係叫你話比佢知你成日唸你以前果個男朋友), 佢又成日覺得你心不在焉..長期落去會點..

可能會幾年之後大家漫漫冷卻了, 又發覺思想不同了, 他又在外面認識到一些跟他很投緣的人.

家庭的分裂, 不是一天做出來的, 結婚之後應該保持新鮮, 用愛去維持呢段關係比一切來的珍貴.

我都係結左婚, 有曾經唸過.
不過有d野你要知道後果. 你要對你身邊既人負責.

時間好重要, 好好同你老公一齊試下享受一下結左婚兩公婆既恩愛生活, 可能你既睇法會唔同呢..

唔好衝動, 冷靜思想, 希望你有一個美滿既婚姻, 加油~~!

u have to ask yourself these kind of q's.

do you love your husband? if not, y marry him?
do you miss your ex bf? or you miss the memories at the past?
did you compare ur husband and ur ex bf in someway?
at last....r u happy to be w/ your husband?

honestly, people can't make the decision for you. it is your life and your future. if you think you should do that, then do it, but don't feel regret afterward.

sometimes ppl missed their ex maybe becox of the gd memories that they didn't have w/ the current one. then in that case, y don't try to make more gd memories w/ the current one instead of keep thinking about the past that you cannot have anymore.

if you think you can't find the love between you and your husband, shouldn't you think of that before you get married? you have to remember what is marriage means to you.

當你結婚既時候,,係咪真心嫁比佢..?
定係想激前男友??
答案只有你自己最清楚!
累鬥累永遠都唔會有好結果...
想清楚自己結婚是為了什麼?
既然結婚了,是不是應該享受現有的感情,,不應回望??