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-我地升中5
-佢(我男朋友)同父母分開住,好獨立,冇王管,成日都好得閒,好易發脾氣
-我好多時都俾父母管住,所以成日都唔得閒打電話俾佢or一齊去街,只可以我set時間一齊,仲有我d sms同電話記錄都會俾阿媽check,有d脾氣同發晦氣
-usually(接近always)都係我主動約佢行街,娛樂等
我同我男朋友d關係愈黎愈差,之前好多次嘈交果陣佢都覺得自己岩曬,話我錯曬,大家冇理幾日之後,每次都係我主動say sorry+認錯,先至冇事番....有次甚至時我同佢講完sorry之後:佢:唔緊要
我:點解你之後唔聽我電話,又唔回sms
佢:我唔鐘意聽
我:我知你唔鐘意我發脾氣但你咁同我咪又一樣態度
佢:你再係咁ge態度我就即刻走,玩完
有一次我同佢嘈完之後叫佢d friend'睇住佢',但佢都面不改容,若無其事,好似乜都無發生咁.....今次又嘈,佢話我滿足唔到佢d要求(佢當口話要我為佢破處同性交,之前我有上過佢屋企,當時佢已經買左condom想有企圖,但唔成功)而家佢話一係滿足佢同趕走d家人管制,一係就分開,我唔知點做先好,我想同佢維持關係,但個處
係女仔最珍貴ge野黎,而我同家人關係又好好.....
我好鐘意佢,冇左佢會好難過,但我唔知點做好呀,有冇人可以幫到我?
女仔同男仔ge關係+男仔過火要求
2010-08-26 9:04 pm
回答 (6)
2010-08-26 9:28 pm
✔ 最佳答案
您要知道, 2個人一齊唔係只單純用 "性" 黎維繫, 而且佢呢次嘅要求, 係要脅您作出妥協, 並唔係著意修補您地之間嘅關係。好喇, 當您今次真係為佢 "破" 左, 您問下自己下一次再嗌交係咪要散? 因為您已經無左啦嘛, 仲比咩佢。 就算無事, 您又係咪可以接受到無論佢啱定您啱, 次次都 "床頭打交床尾和" 囉。
講番, 您地開始嘅時候已經係呢d家庭背景架啦, 佢愛您就會包容您, 比時間您嘅父母接受佢, 認同您地嘅關係。
最後, 既然您同家人關係一直好好, 仲有位咁愛錫您保護您嘅母親, 值唔值得為一個咁嘅男仔而犧牲家庭關係。 況且您唔想 (認為唔係時候), 佢都唔應該迫您。
大個女啦, 自己認真唸下, 到底您真正想要嘅係一個點樣嘅男仔。
2010-08-28 6:12 pm
2010-08-27 12:51 am
2010-08-26 10:41 pm
正常和平衡的男女關係唔係佢要求你乜或者你要求佢係點才一起，對方做唔到滿足自己便要脅分手。你似乎還是個好女仔，有良心又會考慮對方的感受，不值得為這個不珍惜你的人糟蹋自己的心靈和肉體。早走早著，好好讀書，將來你會發現一個真正愛你的男人是不會這樣要求而說成是他需要你這樣做才要你的。
2010-08-26 9:31 pm
I think you should break up with him.
You know that all of his requirements are outrageous
because it involves sex.
Furthermore, as you said, his behaviours become unacceptable
without saying sorry to you after dispute.
I understand that you love him more than you can say but in the meantime,
you have to protect yourself.
You cannot ignore self protection.
Otherwise,your family will feel anxious.
Love consists of many factors like trust and loyalty.
Sensible love is needed in your case.
2010-08-26 13:33:54 補充：
Please think carefully before it is too late.
You know that all of his requirements are outrageous
because it involves sex.
Furthermore, as you said, his behaviours become unacceptable
without saying sorry to you after dispute.
I understand that you love him more than you can say but in the meantime,
you have to protect yourself.
You cannot ignore self protection.
Otherwise,your family will feel anxious.
Love consists of many factors like trust and loyalty.
Sensible love is needed in your case.
2010-08-26 13:33:54 補充：
Please think carefully before it is too late.
2010-08-26 9:22 pm
你地都仲係升中5....
佢就話要你既第一次....
呢個男仔....放棄佢啦= =
你嬲....但竟然無tum返你.....
重要你同佢say sorry"""
有D唔重視你......
佢又唔識睇諒下你....(你屋企人管你)
好明顯唔識關心你....
你既第一次好重要家...
留返比你老公啦""
佢"""
放棄佢啦....搵你一個更愛你既男仔"""
單方面愛""好辛苦家(你愛佢....佢唔多愛你)
佢就話要你既第一次....
呢個男仔....放棄佢啦= =
你嬲....但竟然無tum返你.....
重要你同佢say sorry"""
有D唔重視你......
佢又唔識睇諒下你....(你屋企人管你)
好明顯唔識關心你....
你既第一次好重要家...
留返比你老公啦""
佢"""
放棄佢啦....搵你一個更愛你既男仔"""
單方面愛""好辛苦家(你愛佢....佢唔多愛你)
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