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I lived in Beijing for two years and I seldom (if ever) saw a woman wearing a head scarf such as in the photo. I imagine that people may stare simply because it's different. But then again, Beijing is such a diverse city with lots of different ethnic groups, that you may simply be clumped in with the masses and ignored. I know you'll need to check around for mosques that have women's prayer rooms . . . there's not one in the district I live in in my city.
I now live in China's Northwest and the head scarf is very common. No one would bat an eye.
However, unlike what others have said . . . judgment based upon appearance is very common in China. I am a Caucasian woman with dark brown hair. I live in a somewhat large city (over 3 million) on a somewhat large campus (12,000+ students). I'm starting my fourth year here.
As I was standing in the stairwell today with my luggage (just returned from the US), waiting for my husband to come down (six flights of stairs, no elevator), a family new to the building came down. They had a little girl about 10 years old with them. That little girl literally stopped and simply stared at me. She stared and stared and stared . . . eyes traveling from head to toe. She asked her mother (I assume it was her mother) if I was a foreigner. Her mother replied, "Yes, but she can't understand you." I had already said hello in Chinese, but at that point, I commented that I could, indeed, understand them. I smiled as I spoke and the little girl just backed off a little bit and then squinted to read the characters on my necklace.
I say this simply to point out that blatant staring does happen.
My city has a large population of Muslims. I have many Muslim students in my classes. However, as I've gotten to know them, I have found that most of them are Muslim in identity only . . . they were born into a Muslim family. Very few of them actually know much about their faith. Muslim women are usually the least informed, at least in my limited sample size.
When the ethnic unrest happened a couple of years ago, the Muslims in my city had a sit-down silent protest in support of others in the country, but that's about it.
Unfortunately, there is a negative stereotype towards the Muslims (mostly Hui) in that someone will automatically assume that when they've been pickpocketed, that the pickpocket was a Hui. If anything is stolen from a store, the "of course, it was a Hui." Among the Hui community, the reverse is said . . . "A Han stole my cell phone."
I should point out that physically speaking, there is little difference in the appearance of a Hui or a Han unless they dress differently.
However, when the unrest in Xinjiang occurred (mostly involving Uyghurs and Han), there was ethnic support of the Han in our city. Many of the Uyghur restaurants ending up closing down due to lack of customers. The Han stopped coming.
As large as China is, you'll find yourself a part of many different stories. I recommend your keeping a journal to record various reactions that people have. I'm sure you'll find them interesting.
Good luck!
EDIT: Poppy (aka HJT, aka Chloe), you sound like a very angry young woman. I'm sorry you have had such bad experiences in Boston. Racism is definitely real in all parts of the world. Your experiences are uniquely yours and those same experiences have shaped who you are and how you view the world.
In light of that, I encourage you to remember that each person has their own story and their own experiences. You don't know my story . . . nor do you know my experiences. While I am white, I have lived in the shadow of prejudice due to other aspects of my life. I have lived as a minority for many years in various situations. I do know what it is like to be disliked or even hated because of belief systems or because of being poor. I also have a mentally handicapped sister who was a victim of teasing and even "hate crimes" throughout my growing up years.
My husband is an ABC and he has shared his stories of racism that affected his life while growing up. The United States is not Utopia, but can any place be called that?
I was not complaining about the Chinese girl staring at me. You need to carefully read what I wrote. My intention was to point out that people who look "different" in China are not treated the same as those who "blend in."
By the way, I do not live in a four-bedroom apartment. I live in a small two-bedroom apartment with my husband and my two children. I do not live in a foreign apartment complex, but in a local complex with wonderful local friends. My lifestyle is very similar to my neighbors.