Should I continue sleeping with this guy?

Wow, I see your dilemma... Sounds to me like you should maybe cut it off, simply b/c if you are falling deeper into a crush, and he only will be with you when he's drunk... That is no good, you will get hurt, and if you are willing to take that risk, and just play and have fun... then I would say don't worry about it, keep doing the dirty deed. As far as the ex-fiance and kid, that is maybe another thing that needs to be worried about, you don't want to get into a love triangle, that is not a fun thing, believe me! You never know, maybe you have left a big impact on this guy, and he may miss you when he leaves. But my advice to you is don't get too close to this guy, maybe date other people and be with people who are actually gay and want to be with you drunk or sober. Hope everything works out :)

Your gay.

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no you shouldnt he's married and he has a son those are 2 big negatives so no and he's not gay like you . trust me i watch opera

Ok here is what I think. I know that it must seem all great that you have found someone that you like being with, but if he is straight and only does gay things when drunk, then there is no relationship there. Just a simple one night stand kind of thing. Him having a kid and being divorced isn't a problem, and neither is deployment if you are willing to help support him and his son, but what is the problem is that he is claiming he is straight. How could you be happy if the one you are crushing on doesn't really have feelings towards you. You were right when you said you'd be taking advantage of him when he is drunk, but if he knows, then he is taking advantage of you. I say cut if off with this guy, and find someone new to be with.

gotta listen to oprah

Well you should really find out if this guy likes you, because if he only sees you to have sex, then he only sees you as a sex buddy, and I don't think your taking advantage of him, I think he's taking advantage of you. If he needs to be drunk to well, "love you", then is he really a guy you would want to be with, plus how do you know that he hasn't been with more guys, while you two, were seeing each other, I mean think about it, he has a kid, an ex-fiance, has sex with men, but said he's straight.Though, if you really want to be with him then I think you should ask permission of his son to date him (depending on his age, if he's like 3, he wouldn't understand) and well, just be prepared for what the ex-fiance might say or do to you. You said he's being deployed, would you really be patient for him? and what if the ex-fiance finds out, leaves because she's pissed, and leaves you with the kid, I mean I don't know how old he is, but if he's 3, do you think your capable of taking care and raising a child? (ugh, sorry if this made you even more confused :(, but I basically trying to give you advice if I was in your shoes, and yes I'm also gay. Also, don't mind about what anyone says to you, to offend you at least, because I swear, some people here give you an answer that makes you wanna say "wtf, that's so not what I asked." or at least most people that answered my questions -_-, but then again good thing its just some.
Anyways I hoped this helped.

No. He his a fiance. It's just too complicated to get caught up in that. I mean, if he's going behind his fiance's back, then I'm sorry he doesn't deserve to be in a relationship

You are not taking advantage of him. He's taking advantage of you!!

Find someone worth the trouble..

you might be able to help me with mine..http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100811002959AACY5OF
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Well he's not straight he's confused! Who cares about his past if you just want a fling continue but if you are falling for him then you are setting yourself up for a heartbreak he would never take you seriously he's in denial of his sexuality and will probably hide you forever.

friend : asking him about your relationship and your feel