Have you seen friends fall in love with each other?

2010-07-26 11:43 pm
Have you ever fallen in love with a friend or known people who have? How and why do you think this happens? Do you think there are always friends that you would date and friends that you could and never would date?

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2010-07-27 12:07 am
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Heehee,yes i have fallen in love with my best friend before:) i think i still am in love with him?im not sure,but he has liked me for many years and i was alwayz his "dream girl" or wutever...i started being best friends with him in the 8th grade...then i started liking him beginning of 9th,then fell for him in the middle of 9th grade.I never suspected he had a thing for me until we would start flirting with each other lol:) one day,we were about to kiss,but i stopped myself and turned away because he already had a girlfriend,and that would be very wrong. a couple of days later,he told me he was moving!!!!!and he was keeping it from me!!!!!!everyone knew except me!!!!!!!even my two other bffs which were girls lol,knew!!!!!!he said he did not want to hurt me with this...so then on his last day in town before he moved,he confessed to me that he has liked me since the 5th grade!!!!!! i was very shocked!!!!and he said that being my best friend was just an excuse to be around me all the time. turns out like a week later,he decides to move back and here we are,not being able to be together because 1 of my girl bffs is "in love with him" also,and they had gone out way before i even knew her. also,because of all the people we would date,and this girl he was supposubly "falling in love with". we stayed best friends,but admitted to me that he still liked me alot.finally many months later,that girl he was with cheats on him,he is upset,and my 1 girl bff finds a new bf and she is in complete love with him!! i hav kept it a secret from her that i liked him alot and was possibly even falling for him. finally wen i decided to tell her,she was kind of upset,but then she accepted it and was ok with it:) she is now over him,and even though he is her ex,her and my other girl bff keep on insisting we go out because of the strong feelings we have for each other. im stuck and dont know wut to do haha....but anywayz thats my story about falling for my best friend:) and yes, most likely if a guy and a girl are best friends,they will eventually fall for each other. why?because since ya'll are best buds,u know everything about each other,u love hanging out,u accept each other the way ya'll are,and u just feel a strong connection with this person.therefore,u start having feelings for them as more than friends!! thats exactly why. because an amazing bf should also be ur best friend,so why not ur best friend also be ur bf???LOL well as for ur last question....yes. there will always be friends that will be available to date,while at other times there will be those friends u would never consider crossing the line from friendship to dating. why?because some friends arent really as important to u as others,so therefore u will consider having fun and dating them,as for others,u value their friendship too much to lose it by going out with them. because once u two go out, when u break up,u will either not be friends with them anymore,or u will go back to being friends,but things will not be the same between u guys. also because u see some of ur friends as brothers and dont consider seeing them that way!!(eww!!lol)weeeeeeeeeeeell there u go and im sorry this is sooo long!!!!!! i was just in the mood to type alot and share alot of info hahaha:D
參考: experience:) (as u can see above lol)
2010-07-26 11:46 pm
yes...the best relationships are when you fall for someone who was your friend first cuz you will really know each other and be able to deal with a relationship better...yes
2010-07-26 11:50 pm
well yes i have seen friends fall in love and i think it's because they know eachother so well, and they like eachother's personalities, looks, etc. and yes it's happened to me. yes i think there are always {or most of the time} friends that i would date and friends that are just totally not even close to being on my list of "possible boyfriends".
2010-07-26 11:50 pm
I think I have with my friend but I don't know how she feels towards me T_T. It probably happens because you end up spending lots of time with them and little by little you start liking the things they do, their mannerisms, the way they laugh and smile. stuff like that. The girls I would never consider dating are ones I'm just not physically attracted too lol. I can't help that I have preferences in how a girl should look :/ and other times they're taken. Very few times I think there's someone you meet that you just know you'll be friends forever and a relationship could ruin that friendship so you don't even think about a relationship with them. but that sucks when its one sided and youre on the bad end of things :/
2010-07-26 11:45 pm
yes.
Usually friends start falling in love with each other, then they start dating.
2010-07-26 11:45 pm
I was friends with my wife for two years before our first date.

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