im 22 and this man is 25 (he lived 30 mins drive from me),for a year we would text all the time,just normal texts,he would tell me how much he liked me and fancyed me ,we would exchange dirty texts,and pictures.
When he picked me up in his car we would just talk and kiss never have sex,we would just spend ages cuddling,apart from once we started but had to stop as somebody came.
He told me he wanted to be with me,and then he would get jealous if i went out with any other men,or even spoke to other men.
I then found out for the whole year he had a girlfriend where he lived.So what was he doing with me?we wernt having sex?what good was i to him?what was the point?ive known men to use women for sex but we wernt having any .(i have reposted as wanted some more opinions)
Why did he do this when he had a girlfriend?
2010-07-25 7:55 pm
回答 (6)
2010-07-25 8:05 pm
hi,
probably the guy wanted to use you for sex but the opportunity never presented itself for him to grab it. i think also he wanted to show you that he was a good guy by not pursuing for sex then use you and leave you. i think you were good to him because he saw you as a challenge as you were not easy learn from this and move forward .
probably the guy wanted to use you for sex but the opportunity never presented itself for him to grab it. i think also he wanted to show you that he was a good guy by not pursuing for sex then use you and leave you. i think you were good to him because he saw you as a challenge as you were not easy learn from this and move forward .
2010-07-25 8:03 pm
He was still getting his rocks off with you even if you weren't having sex. Hes a creep, stay away.
He doesn't even merit a question, what a dog.
And listen if a guy starts a 'relationship' (lets just call it that) by wanting dirty pictures and texts then he is seedy and sleazy and that's about it. There's nothing healthy about a guy like this and a proper relationship can never develop
He doesn't even merit a question, what a dog.
And listen if a guy starts a 'relationship' (lets just call it that) by wanting dirty pictures and texts then he is seedy and sleazy and that's about it. There's nothing healthy about a guy like this and a proper relationship can never develop
2010-07-25 8:01 pm
maybe he is trying to prove to himself that the can get more than 1 girl at one time
2010-07-25 8:00 pm
He was using you for attention to feed his ego
2010-07-25 8:00 pm
Maybe he actually liked you? and his girlfriend, and just wanted to be greedy and have both?
Its that question isnt it, can you love two people at once? maybe you can?
Its that question isnt it, can you love two people at once? maybe you can?
2010-07-25 7:58 pm
Dont get fouled by this guy, just let him down, he doesnt merit you!
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