How do you get over a break-up?

2010-07-25 7:55 pm
I wanted to know how other people deal with this.

What do you do when you break-up?

My college gf and I had to break up because of financial and distance issues :'(
I can't get over it, her crying over the phone doesn't help...

回答 (7)

2010-07-25 8:01 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Tomas i can just share with you how I got over my break up. Its too much to type everything out here.

Anyway I found this one article and I don't know why, but I really just followed it.
snipurl [dot] com/getoverit

Maybe you and your ex both can give it a shot. I hope it helps you too.

Take care of yourself :-)

Hope I've been able to help!
2010-07-26 3:02 am
I'm very sorry and I imagine you feel terrible. This usually happens I think when we go to college. It happened to me anyway. Time helps, good friends help and I joined a few clubs on campus. I also started working on campus to fill in the hours I was by myself. I hope you get feeling better.
2010-07-26 3:01 am
If you love each other, reassess the terms of the break-up. I myself am in a (albeit temporary) long distance relationship with a college boyfriend, and yes, we have attempted to break up several times, because the distance kills...however, we decided that if we still have feelings for each other, we will only take a break, and establish a date by which we can get back together. Sometimes, life throws unfortunate circumstances at you, and sometimes you need to take a break from some of the most important things in your life. So talk to her about taking a temporary break, as a 'break-up' sounds too permanent.

Otherwise, go out and have some fun-- find something you enjoy doing--but not too much that you'll make regretful decisions. Hang with the guys, and numb the pain of it a little. Also, tell her to go out and enjoy herself a little, too. And gradually, you will notice yourself detaching emotionally.
2010-07-26 2:59 am
keep your live busy and try to do other stuff to forget her
2010-07-26 2:58 am
family, friends, shopping, and ice cream. dont just sit there doing nothing; keep busy
2010-07-26 2:57 am
2010-07-26 2:56 am
Im going threw this too and all i can say is keep busy and spend time with your family and friends and if you want her back give her some space 2 weeks and try talking to her

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