would it be bad of me to test my boyfriend?

2010-07-25 5:39 pm
i had a friend who made a fake facebook, and sent a promiscuous message to her boyfriend with it to see what he would do. ended up he didnt stop it, and it was just ugly...

i kinda have the urge to do this to my boyfriend, just to see what he would do... he is a great guy, and i dont think he would ever cheat on me, but what would he do in that type of situation? would that be wrong of me to do? if he handled it inappropriately... i wouldnt know how to get mad cuz i would have to fess up. so should i not do it?

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2010-07-25 5:46 pm
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or you could just trust him and not betray him like that. if you did that to him, what you are doing is just as bad as him going along with it because you both are breaking the trust.
2010-07-26 12:43 am
1.Honesty
2.Trust
3.%100 Communication

The only things anyone needs to keep a relationship, break these three rules, and you're doomed.
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2010-07-26 12:46 am
If you have to test him, you don't trust him. And trust is a big part of love. So, logically, that will tell him you don't love him and he will dump you, quick.
2010-07-26 12:50 am
If it turns out OK and he finds out (and he will definitely find out), your history for not trusting him and no one else will date you, if it turns out bad, you lose a boyfriend and the chance of dating someone else because everyone will know what you did. Its a lose lose situation, don't do it.
2010-07-26 12:49 am
I say don't do it...that is called playing games with someone and it hurts....let see what happens you do this and everything is fine he blows the fake facebook off and is faithful as you think he will later on down the road someone tells him what you did now you have hurt him....if you man hasn't given you reason to not trust him then there should be no problem and if he has given you a reason not to trust him DUMP HIM doing things like this is juvenile its time to grow up
2010-07-26 12:48 am
If you are suspicious of him cheating I would go ahead and do it. But if you trust him and he hasn't shown any suspicious behavior I would leave it alone.
2010-07-26 12:48 am
Jaxson is completely right on the money. I realize a movie is only a movie, but watch Chloe - gives you one scenario of what can happen and I don't mean one specific thing. Honest communication and trust makes a relationship. Why not let him know you thought better to not do it but discuss it?
2010-07-26 12:46 am
no.
don't do that if you really like him.
Trust is the most important thing in a relationship, if you start testing him. that means you lose the trust between you and him. It might lead to a bad result.
2010-07-26 12:41 am
its up to you
its a good test and shows how much your boyfriend is committed to you- thought be prepared for the worst, theres a chance that it may also get ugly.
i reckon you should go for it. why the hell not.
2010-07-26 12:42 am
I say go for it test if he really cares about you <3

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