望望望...他想點?

I guess he's just got a tough shell, he's timid in the inside, just like most of the guys out there.

He's probably worried about the same thing as you, the feeling is there, but he isn't sure if things will work out between the 2 of you.

He's hoping you'd give him a positive response to boost his already-low-confidence.

Just like the way you described him, he's the kind of guy who wants to portrait a strong personality in front of people, thus making him '寸', so he doesn't want to fight a losing war, and therefore losing interest in you.

Sometimes human behaves like animals, the male tries to show the strong side in front of the female in order to impress his mate. You friend is probably doing the same thing unconciously.

I'd suggest give it a go, try to be friendlier as a friend and work from there, see how it turns out, afterall, you can only be 20+ for this long, you don't want to miss any opportunities during the 'golden age' for relationships, do you?

It's not like I'm asking you to get married!

2010-07-27 17:53:02 補充：
You're making things complicated 4 urself. Luv is blind, ask yourself a qns, do you like him? Yes > Tell urself 2 do somethin bout it 2 make it happen. No > Move on & stop dwelling on it.

You wanna know if he's interested in you? Go find out, else you'll have insomnia for, who knows?

如果佢唔理騎呢啡,只係找你,佢應該係LOVE左你

佢係個多說話的人,
唔一定鐘意你ge,
有好多人就係多野講,
如果你唔俾反應佢,
佢咪會少講啲lor,


無論你對佢有冇feel都好啦,
做下朋友lor,
試下識多啲人,
有好多野都要自己接受咗先有機會黎
唔夾都可以做下點頭朋友ge

同埋好多人對女朋友ge態度又唔同ge,
串ge人都可以係好好朋友

既然你對佢有少少好感,
就試下同佢做朋友先
睇真下lor
同埋你20+,
都唔怕人話多口啦, 男同女講下野好正常
好多時太收埋自己等於唔俾自己機會

自然啲就得ga la