What to talk about over the phone? !?

I'm 21 and I STILL have the moments lol. I have a love hate relationship with texting because on one end, it allows me to THINK before I speak so I don't say something totally stupid but at the same time I want to hear that person's voice because it makes the conversation more intimate. You want advice? Just let the conversation flow. Find something you two have in common and take it from there. Maybe ask him about his favorite movies or the types of movies he's interested in, and you can start a nice discussion about movies which can lead to another topic like the time you (fill in the blanks) Just talk about things you like, but it's important to listen just as much as it is to talk. I've noticed that sometimes guys are shy on the phone for the first time so you may have to soften him up and ask a lot (NOT TOO MANY) questions to get him going. Don't worry about a little silence. The silence is only as awkward as you make it. I'm not saying sit there and listen to each other breathe for 10 solid minutes, but its ok to take a break from talking perhaps to think of the next topic. Here's a really fun idea, maybe if something is interesting on tv and you two have the same channels you can watch it over the phone. Kind of a like a date but not so much lol. Just have fun and be yourself more importantly.

as a rule men are much less verbal that ladies. so which you mustn't anticipate the common guy to prefer to talk as plenty because of the fact the common lady. in case you attempt to get the attention of a guy, permit him lead the communication, if he seems distracted, it must be that he purely dropped a brick on his toe, yet would not prefer to be an fool. in case you get the effect that he needs to maintain speaking, yet there is no longer something to talk approximately, ask open ended questions, no longer definite no questions. wish that helps.

just ask him how was his day. and talk about yours too.

When I talk to guys on the phone I ask whats up and whatnot.. then after that if the conversation gets dull tell him what you did that day.. any funny stories? Or just tell him something random.. haha I'm soo random but it gives you guys something to talk about(: me?

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Well the All Star game for baseball is on tonight so I'm sure that if he likes sports he will be watching. You could ask him if he saw it and ask who won.

Ask if he is doing anything fun for summer.
Mention a movie that is out or coming out that you want to see and maybe one of you will suggest going to see it together or with friends.

Sounds like he`s interested. Ask if he`s going to a concert or movie that`s coming up. Or some other event.

Talk about the pedestrianisation of Norwich City centre.

Why don't you ask him what he wants to talk about? That's what I do. haha -Muddy Pig

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