Is it weird to be jealous of you girlfriend still kissing her parents on the lips at age 20?
2010-07-10 3:19 pm
I have a girlfriend of 6 months who still kisses her parents on her lips whenever they go away or say goodbye for a day. I am 22 and she is 20, and im about to propose to her soon because i know she is the one. I get really upset/jealous/disgusted out because i feel its me kissing her parents because of her lips has touched theres. I feel that her lips should be all mine because i'm her lover and soon to be wife. I have no problem of hugs and kisses on the cheeks but the lips are a intimate part of your body and should only be used for your boyfriend or husband. On addition sometimes she and her mom take showers in the same bathroom but not together, just one right after another, they see each other naked all the time and it makes me feel like crap and not special because she should only being sharing her body with me and we do take showers all the time together. Its a big turnoff when i see them in the same bathroom talking with each other. Should i be jealous and upset? I want to to only share those things with me!
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2010-07-10 3:25 pm
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No you should not be jealous or upset! this is her mother and father, she has every right to kiss them goodbye. as for the seeing each other naked thing, her mother has been seeing her daughter naked since she was a little girl when she was bathing her as a child. honestly, its a mother/ daughter relationship!
How would you feel if your girlfriend said she didnt feel special because your mother changed your nappies as a child?
But, if it does make you feel uncomfortable you should talk to her about it and things. the problem will never sort itself out if you dont face it head on. you should talk to her about it, and see what she thinks about it.
Good Luck.
2010-07-10 3:39 pm
First off 6 months is way too soon to be proposing. :/ Plus you need to realize this is her parents!! Her mom has seen her in her birthday suit since the day she was born. My mother and I do the exact same thing your girlfriend and her mother does. We are just very close as mother and daughter and have a great and close bond. You should be happy they love each other so much. As for getting jealous, that is ridiculous. Her mom and dad don't make out with her, just a small peck, I'm going to be very mean and say just get over it.
Love her parents too if your deciding to make a very bold move and ask her to marry you. Sorry but this question has my annoyance running high. She's not going out showing her body to other men, she is devoted to you, and if your jealous of her parents, that is a bad sign.
Love her parents too if your deciding to make a very bold move and ask her to marry you. Sorry but this question has my annoyance running high. She's not going out showing her body to other men, she is devoted to you, and if your jealous of her parents, that is a bad sign.
2010-07-10 3:29 pm
Hm...I never thought about this before...I'm twenty and I can't imagine kissing my parents on the mouth. The thought actually makes me nervous.
My sister and I see each other naked all the time and its harmless.
OK. She kisses her parents but its just a peck right? Its you who she kisses with passion right? Only you, right? Her and her mom see each other naked but its not like its some other guy. Just think of it like some chicks in a locker room because thats pretty much how she sees it. It's only you who she actually shares her body with.
I think its how close she is to her parents that bothers you? Maybe you are jealous of the strength of their relationship in general?
My sister and I see each other naked all the time and its harmless.
OK. She kisses her parents but its just a peck right? Its you who she kisses with passion right? Only you, right? Her and her mom see each other naked but its not like its some other guy. Just think of it like some chicks in a locker room because thats pretty much how she sees it. It's only you who she actually shares her body with.
I think its how close she is to her parents that bothers you? Maybe you are jealous of the strength of their relationship in general?
2010-07-10 3:24 pm
You shouldn't be jealous. It's your GF's parents, you would hug or kiss your parents. Sometimes, your parents go to the bathroom with you. If you told your GF to stop kissing her parents, I think that she would be so angry that she might want to break up with you.
2016-11-06 9:39 pm
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2010-07-10 3:25 pm
wow.. that's kinda weird
when i see 12 year olds kissing their parents on the lips i think it's a bit disturbing but hey, each to their own.
i think you should talk to your girlfriend about it, if you're a bit nervous about talking to her about it, make a joke of it and she should get the message.
i kind of agree with you, but it is her body. her lips are not yours and they never will be. she is her own person and it's up to her what she does with her own body. at least it's her parents not another guy :)
when i see 12 year olds kissing their parents on the lips i think it's a bit disturbing but hey, each to their own.
i think you should talk to your girlfriend about it, if you're a bit nervous about talking to her about it, make a joke of it and she should get the message.
i kind of agree with you, but it is her body. her lips are not yours and they never will be. she is her own person and it's up to her what she does with her own body. at least it's her parents not another guy :)
2010-07-10 3:24 pm
Yes, I find that a bit inappropriate.
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