其實男女之間真的不可以只當朋友?"

2010-06-22 4:07 am
其實男女之間真的不可以只當朋友ma?"]
點解D人話'男女之間沒有純朋友之情'呢?"

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2010-06-22 8:45 am
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點解D人話'男女之間沒有純朋友之情'呢?"
我的個人見解是在適婚年齡的男女心態是追求or尋找下半生可同行的人.大部分都是異性相吸.要把一個陌生的人变成自己的親人唔係易事因為有權選擇原故男性和女性同樣關注當大家能相遇能有好感都會巧慮可否有發展的空間.变成更親蜜.更可信任.而友情則代表设有機會發展別人设有選你.過度關懷就越線.對方也未必接受.俗語所講表錯情.同時會產生很多煩腦.

男女之間真的不可以只當朋友ma?"]
世上是存在男女間的友情.相信是小時候出現最多的.成年都有好多不過同性朋友和異性朋友的親蜜度不同是有距離的.因為我們不會只為友誼去破壞已建立了男朋友/女朋友的互信(愛情).搞出一個三角戀來而這三角戀不是自己的原意傷人不利己.做了些陰毒的事便說成是友誼.是講不通的所以如果不是有意發展追求愛情,男和女都是点到即此,在世俗裏好像设有了純正的男女友情的存在,其實是不願誤會無意間害左朋友.這樣的想法都係保護朋友,友情表現.當朋友有難這些純異性朋友一樣站出來幫手的.
2010-06-23 8:46 am
男女緊係可以只做朋友啦!!
只要大家係攞個心出黎對對方好就已經可以做朋友!
只係而家D人對愛情呢樣野膚淺左姐....
有DD咁多多好感就話係鍾意人..乜野叫有FEEL無FEEL??
有感覺唔代表係男女之間愛情果種感覺,可能只係覺得對方係一個唔錯既人既果種好感感覺...咁就當左係鍾意人...
男同女唔一定要做情侶咖,有好多同事呀同學呀都係男女咖..都一樣可以做到朋友...!!
只要大家有共同嗜好呀喜好呀或者傾得埋呀,都可以做朋友咖。
話男女之間無純友情果d人根本連什麼叫喜歡同愛都未分得清!!
唔係個個人都係有目的有企圖先會同人做朋友或者情侶既....
2010-06-22 10:57 pm

其實男女之間真的不可以只當朋友ma?"]

當然吾系 !

沒有純朋友之情'呢?"

當然有!

1) 因大家雖然識 , 未必一定有感覺 / 好感 !

2) 個男仔本身一早可能有自己鐘意的女仔.

3) 人同人之間吾一定要講愛情 , 可以講友情 ,

系需要吾同朋友 : 吾需要去分男同女 !

男女做朋友都可以好開心 , 好岩傾 !
2010-06-22 1:50 pm
II think platonic friendship does exist for girls, but not guys. I can share this with my personal experience. I normally befriends with people very easily, no matter guys or gals. If I find this person easy to talk to, I just take them as my friend,
however, this is not the case to the guys.

I used to have quite a few male friends with whom I treat them as friends, but
they eventually hinted that I am not just their friend, but their girlfriend. At first I
thought I am over sensitive to think that they are hinting, so I disregard their hints.

Until one time, I ask a friend to go look for houses with me and I don't even mind to invest half of my share to buy an apt as an investment. When we were standing in the MTR, I caught this guy looking at me in a very funny way, at that very moment, I knew he is for real. Honestly I didn't know what to react, but what
came out from my emotion was I was angry. In fact more than once I told him it is impossible, If he is not stupid, he should have known that I am not interested in him especially after I told him so. After that incident, he lost me as a friend, which is too bad, I would have love to be friends with him.

So I am very careful now how close I allow myself to befriends with guys, I draw a line bold and clear, maybe male and female's mechanism are very different, it doesn't seem possible just to be friends between male and female. Sigh....
2010-06-22 7:28 am
當然可以只得友情啦!!

''男女之間沒有純朋友之情''
哩句說話系我既角度去睇就系
第三者既說法同埋系dad mum阻止你拍拖既講法

anyway啦..我就系一個活生生既例子..
我冇男朋友,但系我身邊都有吾少男性朋友
當然!只系純友誼!

可能系因為我系一個吾令既女仔,所以男仔們吾會對我感興趣
但我同佢地既相處就好似兄弟甘
佢地就算系幾秘密既事都好,
好多時都會同我講
因為我同佢地只系好好好好既朋友..
絕對吾會有第二種感覺
你問甘既問題系吾系因為你身邊吾多男性朋友..
所以你吾夠了解兩性相處吾一定要有愛情??
2010-06-22 4:13 am
男女之間的"友情"其實只比"愛情"淺一點點

只要再接近一點就會變成愛情一樣的感情

因為男女之間會變成朋友都是因為對彼此有好感

才會變成朋友

所以說男女之間沒有純朋友之情是對的

即使是所謂的"只是朋友", 其中也夾雜了一點愛情的因素

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