Hi John, you asked a very interesting question and I would like to answer.
You asked, "人點解要快樂?" Every human beings need other to love, when
human feel love, they also feel happy. Human natures need love. In another
word, we are needy animals :)
You also asked, "點解呢個世界D人好似比人催眠/洗腦咁, 一定要快樂, 唔開心唔得GE咩?" Yes, you are right. The world taught us that if someone is
feeling sad, that person must be bothered by something or someone else. I
think a person choose to be unhappy is a choice and nothing wrong about it.
Beside, it is not about right or wrong. It is about a person's decision.
Last question you asked, "D人一見到一個人唔開心就要安慰, 唔通唔開心有錯咩?" Nothing wrong about being sad as I mention before. Most of the people like to comfort a sad person to express their feelings and concerns, and
nothing wrong about that. However, in some cases a sad person might want to spend his/her time alone when coping. Other should be alert for that and give
that person some distance.
Finally, I don't like feeling unhappy. If I choose to be sad, it will make me very
tired physically and emotionally. Of course, being sad is not a wrong thing, but I want my bad feeling to be a 'visitor' than feeling like a 'victim' all the time :)
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2010-06-25 05:18:42 補充:
hi john, you asked, "so it is human nature
but why do we need it?"
You need to understand what is human nature. WE WERE BORN WITH IT, just like human nature need food when we feel hungry. Same as love, human nature need love to feel good.
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