Should I switch schools or not?

2010-05-28 4:54 am
I am in grade 7 and have been going to the same school for a long time, since grade 1 actually. I want to switch s hooks next year because I have been having some problems with my friends ever since like grade 2 with the same people. I have friends and everything but i don't feel like I am very apart of my group of friends and I feel like my friends always gossip about me, I want to switch schools and I am not a shy person, but I get very shy in over whelming situations and meeting new people or trying to make friends right off the bat. I am scared but I want to switch schools.

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2010-05-28 5:00 am
✔ 最佳答案
You should absolutely switch schools, but not for any of the reasons you've cited above. Gossipy, cliquish behavior is normal in school, and can unfortunately often extent into adulthood - particularly in small, rural communities. Switching schools will likely not help you with this problem.
However, you are obviously not receiving the educational attention you need. For this reason, yes, switch schools.
2010-05-28 6:17 am
Changing the environment can have a huge impact to one's development.
I remember several major changes of my life was due to the change of the surrounding environment, of course, the changes can either be good or bad. From your case, I would suggest you to change to new school and get everything restarted. However, you should bear in mind that, gossiping, unhappy relationships with other people often occur in life, you should eventually learn how to deal with these situations. But yes, a change in the surrounding environment may shake up your situation, perhaps you would find the new school much better, and personality would change too.

I hope this helps.
參考: Personal experience
2010-05-28 5:01 am
The best solution is to confront the problems and try to solve them, but if you truly feel unhappy at your school, it will help your education to leave. Realize, however, that changing schools is a lot of work, you may have the same problems there, and you'll be changing schools by default anyway when you move to high school. I would perhaps recommend you look into home schooling, which is a great option for middle schoolers. In the end it is your decision, and I suggest you conference with trusted teachers and parents on the issue, because they often have helpful insight on this sort of issue. Be honest with them. Good luck to you, whichever path you choose.
2010-05-28 4:57 am
I dont think that would be the best soloution for you, i think you should stay away from the drama and try to find new friends.


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