We're all girls. They're both straight, and I just recently accepted the fact that I'm bi. I just don't know how they'll react. I don't want to destroy our friendship but I hate keeping secrets from them (they're twins, so they're kind of a plural thing).
And to make it worse, I've got a crush on one (and sometimes both) of them. I really want to make out with her. Any tips? Help? Psychologists? ANYONE?
How do I tell my two best friends that I think I'm bisexual?
2010-05-21 6:47 am
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2010-05-21 6:54 am
✔ 最佳答案
FRIENDSHIP IS NOT REAL IF U DONT accept your friend how he/she isso gudluck just ask the one u like for a date
2010-05-21 1:57 pm
u have to think carefully before telling them, because theres no going back.
if they r easy, open minded guys, u can consider about telling them, if not,
you should think about it again. hope this helps.
if they r easy, open minded guys, u can consider about telling them, if not,
you should think about it again. hope this helps.
2010-05-21 2:21 pm
You're just going to have to blurt it out. Don't make a big to-do about it, it's not like you're saying you're adopting a Chinese baby or something. It's just another thing about you that they deserve to know.
As far as you having a crush on one (or both) of them, don't bother. They're twins. If you did somehow end up dating one of them, it would be really awkward for the other, and everything would get screwed up.
Rule number one of bisexuality: don't mack on your best friends. lol
As far as you having a crush on one (or both) of them, don't bother. They're twins. If you did somehow end up dating one of them, it would be really awkward for the other, and everything would get screwed up.
Rule number one of bisexuality: don't mack on your best friends. lol
2010-05-21 2:02 pm
first make sure they ready to hear it.just give a sign gay/bi things & look how they react.then tell.other wise you'll have regret as me.
參考: yesterday i told my best friend that i'm gay & now she doesn't talk me.i lost my only one best friend.
2010-05-21 1:57 pm
DO THIS:
Tell them that you are open for any kind of relationship. including relationships with girls too like "you just wan to try", and tell them that u are not gay. as simple as that. believe me they will understand.
Tell them that you are open for any kind of relationship. including relationships with girls too like "you just wan to try", and tell them that u are not gay. as simple as that. believe me they will understand.
2010-05-21 1:57 pm
The only way that may make you feel more comfortable may be to strike up a conversation of what they think about people that are bi-sexual, at least you'll know how they feel. Then take it from there. As far as the friendship goes.. I married my best friend..
2010-05-21 1:53 pm
Tell them in a private place . who knows they might accept it .
2010-05-21 1:51 pm
They won t mind,they will find you cool,because you are cool!As long as you don t hit on your best friends.They should be cool whit it if they are your best friends,right?
參考: the world,today
2010-05-21 1:51 pm
About the telling: you can expect them to already know. They are unlikely to be surprised. About the crush: it's impossible to guess. But the fact that they are still your friends suggests they don't really mind.
2010-05-21 1:54 pm
Congratulations upon a brilliant question - well posted!
The answer is quite simple - you don't tell them anything. Your sexual preference has absolutely nothing to do with your friends- absolutely nothing!
If they are genuine and sincere friends they will accept you just as you are. God made you, remember, and if you are good enough for Him - and you are - then you are MORE than good enough for the rest of us mere mortals - and that includes your friends.
If you feel that they will be critical and perhaps judgmental, then you are better off without them
Regards.
The answer is quite simple - you don't tell them anything. Your sexual preference has absolutely nothing to do with your friends- absolutely nothing!
If they are genuine and sincere friends they will accept you just as you are. God made you, remember, and if you are good enough for Him - and you are - then you are MORE than good enough for the rest of us mere mortals - and that includes your friends.
If you feel that they will be critical and perhaps judgmental, then you are better off without them
Regards.
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